Are Anger Issues Genetic? How Your Genes May Affect Your Temper

Updated November 13, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Virtually everyone will experience anger from time to time, but this emotion can seem more frequent and harder to control for some than others. Chronic anger can also seem to be a trend among some family members, which begs the question: Are anger issues genetic?

While genetics may influence one’s tendency to experience frequent or intense anger, learned behavior from parents or caregivers and other environmental factors may also come into play. This awareness can often be the first step toward better managing anger. Therapy, counseling, and other forms of support are available to help manage difficult emotions. 

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The role of the genetic factor in anger and aggression

Genetics may affect how we experience and show anger. Research indicates that some people might be naturally more prone to getting angry or may have a harder time calming down because of their genetic makeup.

For example, behavioral genetics research on twins and families suggests that about 50% of aggression in children is due to their genes. As people grow older, genes seem to play a bigger role in aggression, while the influence of their shared environment—like their home life—becomes less important. Studies also suggest that the same genes affecting aggression in childhood may continue to influence it later in life.

One study explored how certain genes might affect aggressive behavior, focusing on the roles of dopamine and serotonin. Researchers reviewed 24 studies published since 2000 and found 18 specific genetic variations linked to aggression. However, the results were not always clear, and many studies didn't fully assess people's psychological states. 

Some researchers also found that anger is connected to specific brain regions—mainly the amygdala and the hypothalamus. The amygdala helps process emotions like fear and anger, while the hypothalamus regulates responses like aggression.

Are all anger issues genetic?

Not all anger issues are purely genetic. While around half of angry behavior is thought to be inherited, the environment you live in and other factors also tend to have an impact. By recognizing that both your genes and your surroundings can affect your emotions, you may be able to find better strategies to control them.

The link between mental health and anger issues

Anger is also often closely related to mental health. When someone lives with a mental illness like bipolar disorder, for instance, it can affect their ability to manage emotions. As a result, they may experience angry feelings that seem out of control. The challenge lies in how the brain manages emotion regulation.

For example, a person with bipolar disorder may experience rapid shifts from extreme happiness to intense anger as a result of their condition. These changes can make emotional control difficult. It’s not just about feeling angry; it’s also about how the mind processes these emotions.

Anger can lead to stress and sadness, creating a difficult cycle. Frequent anger may increase stress, which can turn into hopelessness and depression. This cycle can feed on itself: anger makes stress worse, stress deepens depression, and deeper depression makes controlling anger harder. In addition, people may experience guilt after angry outbursts, which can further increase stress and sadness.

Bipolar disorder isn’t the only mental health condition that may manifest as anger. Depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) all have this potential as well. It's also worth noting that certain conditions, such as intermittent explosive disorder, involve angry outbursts as a key symptom. Genetics often play a role in whether a person will develop mental illnesses like these, further complicating causation.

Other factors that can affect anger

Many factors can influence someone's anger levels in addition to genetics. Environmental factors, stress, sleep deprivation, physical health problems, and past experiences can all play a part too.

Environmental factors

The environment you grow up in or live in now can greatly influence how you manage anger. If you're often around people who have angry outbursts and behave aggressively, you might start to see angry behavior as something expected. Growing up in a home where conflict and aggression were common can also make you more likely to be chronically angry and act out as an adult.

Stress

High-stress situations can also trigger anger and aggressive behavior. Stress might come from job-related pressures, school demands, or personal problems. It can affect how the brain processes emotions, potentially making someone more likely to have angry outbursts. 

Sleep deprivation

A lack of sleep can affect your mood and how well you’re able to manage your emotions. When you’re sleep-deprived, you may be more likely to react with anger and irritability. Sleep is key for keeping your emotions balanced. 

Physical health problems

Certain health problems can make it harder to control anger. Conditions like chronic pain, neurological disorders, or hormonal imbalances may all affect how you manage feelings like anger. For example, thyroid problems or chronic pain might make you more irritable.  

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Past experiences

Past trauma or negative experiences may lead to chronic anger and violent behavior in some cases too. For instance, if you have experienced abuse, you may struggle with anger problems as a result of unprocessed emotional pain. These past experiences may influence how you respond to stress in the future. 

If you are experiencing trauma, support is available. Please see our Get Help Now page for more resources.

If you or a loved one is experiencing abuse, contact the Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Support is available 24/7.

Mental health disorders

Again, certain mental health disorders like anxiety, depression, and bipolar disorder can worsen anger problems. These conditions may make it hard for you to control your emotions, potentially leading to angry outbursts and aggressive behavior. 

How anger management techniques can help

Learning how to control your anger can be an important skill. Anger management techniques are tools that may help you manage anger in productive and healthy ways. By practicing these methods, you may be able to reduce the negative effects of anger on your life.

Some effective anger management techniques include:

  • Deep breathing: Taking slow, deep breaths may help calm the mind and reduce physical tension.
  • Time-outs: Momentarily stepping away from a situation when you start to feel angry may help you cool down and think more clearly.
  • Exercise: Physical activity can be a helpful outlet for releasing built-up anger and stress.
  • Self-talk: Reminding yourself to stay calm and think logically may help prevent anger from taking over.
  • Mindfulness: Doing your best to stay in the present moment may help reduce anger triggered by past events. Practicing mindfulness regularly could equip you with this skill.
  • Cognitive restructuring: Changing negative thought patterns into positive ones may help manage anger. 
  • Humor: Trying to find the humor in a situation may sometimes help defuse anger and lighten the mood.

These practices may help improve your personal relationships, job performance, and mental health by allowing you to respond to difficult situations in a calm and constructive way. Anger management is not just about controlling outbursts; it’s also about improving overall well-being. 

Recognizing when to seek help for anger management

Recognizing when to reach out for help with anger problems can also be key for overall health. With the right support, you may be able to identify the root of your anger problems and find healthier ways to manage your emotions. Below are a few resources you may be able to turn to for support.

Mental health professionals

If anger has come to affect your daily life or relationships, it may be time to speak with a mental health professional. They can teach strategies to help you manage your anger effectively. Sessions with a therapist or counselor may help you identify the root causes of your anger through techniques like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), a type of talk therapy. CBT can be used to treat mental health conditions that may be causing or contributing to anger, but it can also be leveraged to help a person who does not have a diagnosable disorder but is looking for emotional support.

Anger management support groups

Support groups can allow you to share your experiences and learn from others who are experiencing similar challenges. These groups usually meet regularly and are often led by a trained facilitator. Support groups offer accountability as well, which may make it easier for you to stay focused on your anger management goals.

Considerations when discussing anger issues

When you discuss anger problems, there are many factors that may affect the conversation. It can be helpful to consider any cultural factors that may play a role, and remember that trust is key in counseling sessions.

Cultural sensitivities in anger management

People from different cultures may manage anger in different ways. For example, in some cultures, openly discussing anger is not accepted, which might make a person feel embarrassed or worried about being judged when expressing their emotions. Finding a therapist who understands your cultural background may help you manage your emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

Trust-building in anger management counseling

Building trust is often a key part of anger management counseling. Feeling safe with your provider and/or the other people in your support group can help you open up. Trust-building activities, like active listening and having your feelings validated, may also strengthen the relationship with your therapist or counselor. 

Finding support for anger problems

In general, you can usually choose between in-person and virtual sessions if you’re seeking mental health services or support. Those who can’t commute to and from in-person therapy sessions due to a busy schedule or who feel nervous at the prospect of opening up to someone face to face might prefer to explore online therapy. With a platform like BetterHelp, you can attend sessions from the comfort of home, which can make therapy more convenient and less intimidating. 

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Is online therapy effective for anger and aggression?

Research suggests that online therapy can be effective for anger management in many cases. For example, in a study involving 234 people struggling with anger, researchers tested three different online therapy treatments. The most effective one combined techniques to help people notice their emotions and rethink negative thoughts. This approach reduced anger by 27% and aggression by 43%.

Takeaway 

Anger is a complicated emotion that can be shaped by both our genes and what we learn from our surroundings. Some people might naturally experience anger more easily because of their genetic background, but other things like stress, the environment they live in, and mental health are also important factors. If anger begins to interfere with your daily life or relationships, talking to a professional through therapy or joining a support group may be valuable for gaining better control over your emotions.

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