Approaching Emotional Overeating Awareness Month With Compassion

Medically reviewed by Melissa Guarnaccia, LCSW
Updated October 10, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Emotional Overeating Awareness Month can highlight the relationship between mental well-being and the consumption of food. Overeating isn’t necessarily just a physical concern, and everyday stressors can influence a person’s relationship with food. It can be important to approach Emotional Overeating Awareness Month with compassion and understanding, recognizing that emotional overeating can be a complex issue that may affect people from all walks of life.

Emotional overeating can manifest in various ways, and individuals may use food for comfort when they are struggling with difficult or negative emotions, such as stress or sadness. If an individual is having difficulty with emotional overeating, approaching the topic with empathy and compassion can be vital, especially since they may already be experiencing feelings of guilt, shame, or self-blame. By fostering a supportive and non-judgmental environment, you may be able to educate people about the issue and create a conducive environment for healing, empowering individuals to form healthier relationships with food. 

If you struggle with overeating or otherwise maintaining a healthy relationship with food, speaking with a licensed therapist in person or online may be beneficial.

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Understanding emotional eating and overeating

Emotional Overeating Awareness Month can help highlight the connection between emotions and eating behaviors, fostering understanding and support for those struggling with this aspect of mental health.

Emotional overeating can be defined as a coping mechanism in which individuals consume excessive amounts of food after an emotional event to cope with negative feelings. Rather than true physical hunger, which tends to develop gradually, hunger due to emotional overeating often comes on suddenly and is frequently paired with an overwhelming craving for a specific food, like chocolate or pizza. 

Causes of emotional overeating

There can be a variety of causes for emotional overeating, a major leading cause being emotional dysregulation, which generally refers to having difficulty controlling emotions. 

Other internal causes of emotional overeating may include alexithymia (the inability to understand and process emotions), a lack of introspective awareness, and a reversed hypothalamic pituitary adrenal stress axis. 

Various external factors and emotions, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem, and societal pressures, can also trigger an emotional eating binge. 

Other factors that can influence your relationship with food and emotions include past experiences with food, socioeconomic factors, cultural norms, and family dynamics. 

For example, past experiences with food, such as restrictive dieting or childhood food-related trauma, may be a root cause of emotional overeating. In addition, socioeconomic factors, like living in an area with limited healthy foods or a family environment that celebrates junk food, may increase someone’s risk for developing an emotional overeating condition.

Effects of emotional overeating including weight gain

Weight gain is one of the adverse effects that emotional overeating can have on an individual’s physical health. However, an emotional eater may also experience unpleasant thoughts and feelings, such as guilt, shame, and frustration. This cycle of going back and forth between emotional overeating and emotional distress can not only lead to potentially dangerous unstable weight loss and weight regain, but also perpetuate negative thought patterns and worsen overall mental health. By raising emotional overeating awareness, people can learn to recognize their thoughts, feelings, and habits surrounding food so that they can seek guidance and support in times of distress and find healthier ways to manage their emotions.

Is emotional overeating an eating disorder?

An eating disorder can be generally categorized as a severe and impactful disordered relationship to food that makes it hard for patients to consume in healthy ways. That being said, emotional overeating is not clinically recognized as its own disorder; it can lead to this disordered relationship and is often a symptom found in those with an eating disorder, but is not considered a stand-alone medical condition. Even certain people experiencing emotional overeating as a symptom of a disorder can overcome the symptom through treatment without fully overcoming their condition. 

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Compassionate approaches to emotional overeating

If somebody in your life is struggling with emotional overeating, it can be important to show them compassion and support. By approaching them in these simple ways, you may offer them an opportunity to build awareness and break the cycle. 

  1. Active listening: Sometimes, people simply need someone to talk to, which can help them build awareness and work through difficult emotions. By offering an open, supportive environment, you can give them space to genuinely express themselves.

  2. Encouragement: Recognize where they are at this moment and offer them support. Encourage them in their endeavor to curb emotional overeating and empower them with words and actions.

  3. Patience: Overcoming eating disorders can take time. Try to celebrate the small wins and avoid expecting instant gratification.

  4. Education: When you educate yourself on emotional overeating, people struggling with the condition may feel acknowledged and understood. You may also be able to help them identify emotional eating triggers or support them in finding the right therapist.

  5. Fun: Just like everybody else, people struggling with emotional overeating typically want to enjoy their day-to-day lives. Spend time together enjoying aspects of life aside from eating.

  6. Professional support: If a loved one struggling with emotional overeating is open to listening and respecting your suggestions, you might help them find a therapist to support their mental health and well-being.

  7. Positivity: Promote self-care and body positivity among your friends, family, and loved ones, whether it’s by supporting body positivity campaigns or trying mindfulness practices.

Nurturing a healthy relationship with food

Eating mindfully and embracing intuitive eating can help individuals develop a positive relationship with food. This approach to eating generally encourages people to listen to their bodies. For example, you might choose not to finish a meal if you’re full or eat a light snack if you are low on energy between meals. This can help you develop sustainable eating habits, leading to a greater sense of balance and energy throughout the day. Here are a few helpful tips for intuitive eating:

  • Eat mindfully: Sit with your food for a moment before eating, eat slowly, and savor each bite. Eating slowly can be an effective way to reduce the amount of food you consume.

  • Honor hunger and fullness: Pay attention to how your body feels when you eat. When you feel full, stop eating. Once you learn to pay attention to your body’s cues, it may become a natural process.

  • Choose fruits and vegetables: Fruit tends to score highly on the satiety index, meaning you will likely feel full faster when eating it. 

  • Cook and prepare meals with care: Engage in the cooking process mindfully, focusing on nourishing ingredients and enjoying the creative aspect of food preparation.

  • Practice self-compassion: Remember to give yourself grace as you develop intuitive eating skills.

  • Seek support: Spend time eating with loved ones in a non-judgmental, supportive environment where you feel safe and stable, or consult a licensed therapist for professional guidance.

  • Practice gratitude: Cultivate appreciation for the nourishment food provides and express gratitude for the ability to enjoy each meal.

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By adopting these practices, individuals can foster a more balanced relationship with food that provides them with more joy and energy in everyday life.

Benefits of online therapy

Online therapy can be an excellent choice for those who are struggling with emotional overeating. You can book sessions that fit your schedule, perhaps choosing to have a weekly appointment before dinnertime so that you can immediately put new strategies into practice. You could also take advantage of the messaging feature to provide your therapist with daily updates on your progress.

Effectiveness of online therapy

According to a 2023 study, online therapy can be an effective form of treatment for binge eating disorder, which often involves a component of emotional overeating. This study joins a large body of evidence suggesting that online therapy can be just as effective as in-person therapy.

Takeaway

Emotional Overeating Awareness Month can be an opportunity for all individuals to understand emotional overeating and its root causes, including external and internal factors like work stress and emotional dysregulation. If somebody in your life is struggling with emotional overeating, it can be important to approach them with compassion and support. If you’re trying to change your relationship with food, try practicing intuitive eating or seek support and guidance from a licensed therapist.

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