Repression: The Hidden Power of the Unconscious Mind in Shaping Our Thoughts and Actions While Repressing Emotions and Memories

Medically reviewed by April Justice, LICSW
Updated October 11, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, have you ever stopped to wonder what influences the countless decisions you make or the emotions you feel?

According to research published in Integrative Medicine,  and mental processes are beyond our conscious awareness. As a result, nearly all of our thoughts, feelings, and actions are influenced by the unseen depths of our minds.

The idea of repressed memories has been somewhat controversial among psychologists. Some psychologists might think of repression as a vigilant guardian, standing at the gates of your conscious mind, discreetly filtering out thoughts and emotions that it deems too uncomfortable or distressing. However, some researchers point to the unreliability of so-called repressed memories. 

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In this article, we’ll explore the concept of repression, the history behind this concept, and its potential impact on our behavior and emotions.

Historical context and psychological theories of repression

The concept of repression has a rich history. In ancient times, the human mind was a mystery, often associated with spiritual elements or divine influences. It wasn't until the late 1800s that repressed memories were first identified in medical literature.

Austrian neurologist Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, was one of the first to delve into the human psyche's uncharted waters. In 1895, Freud published his groundbreaking book Studies on Hysteria, introducing the concept of unconscious repression and its implications for mental health.

According to Freudian theory, humans naturally tend to push away unpleasant memories, especially those linked to trauma or anxiety. It was not until the late 19th and early 20th centuries that researchers began to study the mind more scientifically. Freud used the iceberg analogy to describe the mind, where the conscious mind is the tip above the water, and the larger unconscious mind is submerged beneath.

Freud's psychoanalytic theory was rooted in the interaction between the id, ego, and superego. According to his theory, sexual desire (id) is thought to be balanced by the reality principle (ego), while the conscience and morality of society are represented by the superego. Repression, he proposed, was a defense mechanism that protects the conscious mind from unwanted thoughts or desires.

Over time, the concept evolved. Neo-Freudians and cognitive psychologists proposed new perspectives, and the understanding of repression expanded to encompass more complex aspects of memory, cognition, and behavior.

Today, repression is still a much-misunderstood phenomenon in psychology. Many argue that it isn't real or can be unhealthy, while others point to its potential benefits in avoiding distress and maintaining psychological balance.

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The mechanism of repression

Some psychologists believe repression pushes distressing thoughts into the unconscious mind, where they remain inaccessible to the conscious mind. In this way, repression may act as a buffer, defending us from negative emotions and memories.

The process of repression is believed to be complex and multifaceted. For instance, when trauma or anxiety enters your awareness, your brain may activate several defense mechanisms that help you cope. The most common defense mechanisms may be denial, dissociation, repression ,and suppression. However, it can be important to differentiate between .

Repression is thought to be the direct opposite of suppression, the voluntary act of pushing away something from conscious awareness. Instead, repression is thought to happen automatically and unconsciously. In theory, it's a process in which your mind actively pushes away distressing thoughts and memories without you being aware of them.

In this way, the unconscious mind may serve as a repository for repressed material. Often, this material is too difficult for the conscious mind to handle. However, Freud and other researchers believed that these thoughts and feelings often revealed themselves through dream analysis, slips of the tongue, and free association.

The effects of repression may be both positive and negative, depending on the circumstances. On the one hand, it may help you cope with unpleasant memories or emotions by pushing them away from conscious awareness. On the other hand, this same process may lead to psychological concerns, such as anxiety and depression.

Impacts of repression on thoughts and behaviors

Repression may influence thoughts and behaviors in various ways. This mechanism may create internal conflicts and stress as repressed information fights for consciousness. This internal battle may sometimes manifest as intrusive thoughts, upsetting dreams, or unexpected emotions.

At a behavioral level, repression might give rise to compulsive behaviors, such as overeating or overworking. Moreover, it may create irrational fears or anxieties or lead to emotional numbness and difficulty expressing feelings. 

Repression may also affect memory and perception. Someone who has repressed traumatic memories might have difficulty recalling events from that period. Repressed emotions may also influence daily behavior, possibly manifesting through overcompensation or avoidance of certain situations.

The positive and negative sides of repression

Repression doesn’t necessarily have to be bad. Some believe that it may help with emotional regulation and protect individuals from the emotional impact of trauma. However, the negative side of repression may include the possibility of psychological distress. Furthermore, excessive repression might inhibit personal growth by preventing the processing of important emotions and experiences. While it can be challenging to talk about negative memories and past traumas, it’s often a necessary part of the process of healing and moving forward.

Uncovering repressed material is controversial. If possible, it is thought to be a delicate process that may occur through psychotherapy or hypnosis. Also, some clinicians may use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to change thought patterns that can be influenced by repression.

Our understanding of repression is still in its infancy. With more knowledge regarding the mechanisms of repression, researchers may develop strategies to help people cope with its effects.

Practical applications and personal growth: Understanding repression in psychoanalysis

Psychoanalysis can be a powerful tool for understanding our behaviors and tendencies, and it may provide insight into the subtle nuances of repression that manifest in our daily lives. With therapy, we may learn to recognize repression, use it to move forward, and prevent it from having a negative influence on our mental health.

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Are repressed memories controlling your life?

Fostering your emotional health typically involves creating a balance between protecting yourself through repression and processing emotions in a healthy way. Therapy can be a useful resource for those wanting to explore their repressed memories and use them to experience growth.  

Online therapy for repression

If you feel hesitant about discussing repression in traditional in-person therapy, you might consider online therapy. Through evidence-based techniques like online cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), you may learn to understand and manage your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors more effectively. A licensed online therapist may be able to help you explore repressed memories and develop the skills necessary to overcome distressing mental health challenges. 

With online therapy, you don’t have to move around your life to make it to sessions. You can attend sessions in a way that’s most comfortable for you, whether via audio, video, or live chat. This can allow you to still get the support and care you need without sacrificing other important areas of your life. 

The efficacy of online therapy for changing your thoughts

Cognitive behavioral therapy is often used by therapists to address difficult memories and troubling thoughts. With CBT, individuals can often learn how to identify inaccurate or unhelpful thoughts and then change them into more positive, productive patterns of thinking. 

Recent studies indicate that internet-delivered CBT can be as effective as in-person therapy for treating mental health conditions and addressing other life concerns. In one study, researchers found that internet-based CBT successfully treated depression, generalized anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and bipolar disorder, among other disorders

Takeaway

As a protective mechanism, repression might serve as a guardian of emotional well-being. However, it may also be a hidden barrier to positive mental well-being, sometimes leaving us feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to proceed. If you’re interested in learning more about repression and the power of the unconscious mind, it may help to speak with a licensed therapist, whether in person or online. With BetterHelp, you can be matched with a therapist who has experience helping people explore difficult memories. Take the first step toward getting support with repression and reach out to BetterHelp today.
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