Depression Attacks: 8 Steps To Cope With Sudden Depression And Anxiety

Medically reviewed by Julie Dodson, MA, LCSW
Updated October 10, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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Sometimes events affect you unexpectedly, bringing on a sudden attack of depression or anxiety. For example, perhaps you are making lifestyle changes, starting or ending a relationship, beginning a new weight loss regimen, or taking a new career path, and your state of mind takes an abrupt downturn. Perhaps you have noticed changes in your mood, such as increased worry and anxiety or low mood, and you don’t understand why. If so, you may be experiencing an episode of depression or anxiety. Below, we’ll explore the symptoms of depression and anxiety and strategies you can use to address these conditions.

8 steps you can take to manage sudden anxiety and depression

  1. Stay Calm: Feeling a sudden bout of depression or anxiety can be frightening. Doing whatever you can to stay calm may help you focus on what triggered the event and how to feel better. If possible, you might take a break from everyday activities, breathe deeply, and remember that the symptoms of these episodes are temporary.

  2. Distract Yourself: Distraction through humor, exercise, and positive socializing can reduce feelings of sudden anxiety and depression.

  3. Practice Self-Acceptance: A sudden change in mood can lead some people to be hard on themselves. However, accepting that you feel depressed or anxious may help you overcome the experience and seek help.

  4. Engage In Self-Care: Self-care includes eating healthy foods, getting sufficient sleep, taking hot baths, and connecting with others who support you. Self-care can help you stay as healthy as possible while you address the symptoms of depression or anxiety.

  5. Challenge negative thinking: Often, when we are depressed or anxious, we engage in negative thought patterns, such as telling ourselves we are a failure or won’t ever feel good again. By challenging negative thoughts, you may find that you can reduce their impact and focus on getting to a more positive place.

  6. Exercise: Physical activity often helps relieve symptoms of depression and anxiety. Exercise can include walking, jogging, practicing yoga, swimming, biking, or practicing martial arts. Exercise can reduce stress and help you relax.

  7. Avoid Alcohol, Drugs, and Caffeine: The effects of alcohol, recreational drugs, and caffeine can contribute to symptoms of depression and anxiety. If you are experiencing an adverse change in mood, avoiding these substances may help you feel better.

  8. Reach Out For Help: Therapists use several forms of talk therapy to help people overcome depression and anxiety. Reaching out to a mental health professional is often an effective method for overcoming a sudden attack of depression or anxiety.

It is okay to admit when you're experiencing symptoms of depression or anxiety. Recognizing a problem is the first step to finding a solution. It can feel overwhelming if this is the first time you're experiencing an episode of depression or anxiety, but it can help to remember that this is not your fault and that you’re not alone. It can also be helpful to understand the symptoms of depression and anxiety as you seek solutions.

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Identifying the symptoms of depression and anxiety

Depression is more than just sadness. According to the American Psychiatric Association, the symptoms of depression include:

  • Persistent sadness lasting longer than two weeks

  • Unexplained low energy levels, fatigue, and tiredness

  • Loss of interest in previously enjoyable activities

  • Weight gain or loss or appetite changes

  • Decrease in mental focus

  • Changes in sleep habits, such as difficulty sleeping, insomnia or excessive sleep

  • Feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, or helplessness

  • Drug or alcohol use

  • Memory problems

  • Physical complaints, such as headaches, body pains, and digestive problems

  • Thoughts of self-harm or suicide

Anxiety symptoms may accompany a depressive episode or exist on their own. People with anxiety may experience the following symptoms:

  • Irritability

  • Anticipation of negative outcomes

  • Tense feelings

  • Difficulty concentrating

  • Hypervigilance 

  • Tingling sensations

  • Racing thoughts

  • Chest pain

Physical anxiety symptoms can include sweating, muscle tension, diarrhea or upset stomach, unexplained aches and pains, insomnia, a pounding heartbeat, shaking, dizziness, and shortness of breath, and panic attacks.

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Understanding what causes sudden depression and anxiety

There are many possible reasons why anxiety or depression occurs suddenly. An anxiety or depression attack may be due to experiencing a traumatic event, a sudden loss of a job or loved one, or a significant change, such as giving birth, which can cause postpartum depression. During pregnancy and childbirth, the brain undergoes increased production of many hormones, which can result in depression. The symptoms might seem sudden, but your brain chemistry may have been changing over time in response to stress.

Sometimes sudden changes in your mood can result from stress in daily life. High levels of stress can impact your mental health, cause a panic attack, and contribute to a greater risk of physical illnesses, including heart disease and heart attack. In addition, stress can also come from healthy lifestyle changes, such as making dietary changes or quitting smoking. Further, women experiencing premenstrual syndrome (PMS) can experience depression symptoms due to hormonal changes that occur during this time. In addition, some people experience depression when they have a chronic physical illness, such as cancer.

Mood changes can also result from variations in weather patterns, such as when there is a lack of sunshine or when there is cold weather in winter. Some people experience seasonal affective disorder (SAD) when sunlight is limited.

Some people may not have a clear trigger event for how depression or anxiety started. Some can complete daily activities and communicate with others even if they feel depressed or anxious. However, untreated depression and anxiety can progress into a more severe mental illness. You can take action when noticing any changes, especially if they last longer than two weeks or you experience thoughts of self-harm.

Talking about your feelings may help

As hard as it may be to open up to someone, it may bring relief to get emotional support for your feelings. In addition, gaining insight from a trusted friend or family member can help put your situation into perspective. If you don't know someone with whom you feel comfortable talking, consider consulting a doctor or a mental health professional.

Treatment options for depression and anxiety

When left untreated, depression and anxiety can worsen and affect your overall well-being. You may benefit from seeing a mental health professional as soon as possible to obtain a diagnosis and receive the appropriate treatment to overcome depression symptoms that last longer than two weeks. Studies have shown that medication, psychotherapy, or a combination of these are practical options for relieving symptoms of depression and anxiety. 

Medications often provide relief by improving mood and reducing anxiety. Your primary care doctor should be able to present you with medication options and refer you to a therapist covered by your health insurance for further help. Psychotherapy can often help individuals understand their feelings and learn effective strategies for coping with difficult emotions. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can be effective for assessing personal thoughts, perceptions, and beliefs and providing an understanding of how they affect depression and anxiety symptoms.

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Online therapy through a platform such as BetterHelp is a convenient, flexible choice for treating symptoms of sudden anxiety and depression. Research shows online therapy is as effective as seeing a therapist in person for many mental health conditions, including anxiety and depression. 

In addition, online therapy is often more convenient than in-person sessions because you can often connect with a therapist via audio, video, and in-app messaging without taking time out of your life to commute to an office. This may be especially useful if symptoms of depression make it difficult to leave home. Also, you don’t have to have a diagnosis such as major depressive disorder to benefit from speaking to a therapist about what you’re experiencing. 

"I have never had therapy in my entire life. I’m 50 years old. I should’ve done this a long time ago. Kyle has given me tips and tools to manage things just talking things out helps reduce my anxiety and depression is understanding and seems to know what his patients are going through."
— BetterHelp member’s review of their therapist

Takeaway

Sudden bouts of depression and anxiety can be scary and disruptive to your life. Ups and downs in mood are part of life, but when these changes last more than two weeks, you may be experiencing depression or another mental health condition treatable through talk therapy, medication, or both. Whatever the cause of your anxiety or depression, you don’t have to face it alone. Take the first step toward healing and reach out to BetterHelp today. 
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