Managing Relocation Depression

Medically reviewed by Elizabeth Erban, LMFT, IMH-E and Julie Dodson, MA, LCSW

Updated March 31st, 2025 by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Moving homes, whether to a new town, state, country, or even just a new house, can feel overwhelming. The initial excitement of moving to a new area may quickly wear off and change between moving anxiety and relocation sadness. You may be responsible for moving furniture, packing your items into boxes, and saving money for moving expenses such as a moving truck, travel costs, and moving support, which may cause stress.

After a significant move, you might also experience unusual sadness, irritability, or exhaustion after a significant move. It’s not uncommon for moving to cause symptoms of depression, anxiety, and adjustment issues, and if you're experiencing these symptoms, you're not alone. Millions of people worldwide experience depression, and among those are individuals who are living with temporary relocation depression, also sometimes referred to as moving depression. However, support from mental health professionals is available to treat depression.

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What is relocation depression?

Relocation depression is a type of situational depression that occurs after relocating or moving. This type of depression is not listed in the DSM-V but may demonstrate symptoms similar to those associated with clinical depression on a short-term basis. Your symptoms are real, and support is available to you.

Moving can be a significant life event, on par with other large life events such as having children, getting married, or meeting your partner. Often, significant events can affect multiple aspects of daily life and cause various emotions, such as happiness, excitement, stress, anger, and disappointment.

A recent study shows that moving is reported as one of the most stressful life events by adults around the world. The study indicated that moving was often connected to a plethora of negative mental and physical health risks, so if you’re having a hard time adjusting to life in a new place, you are far from alone.

What are relocation depression symptoms?

The symptoms of relocation depression may appear similar to those of clinical depression. They include:

Feeling down or experiencing a persistent low mood
Feelings of anger or irritability
Appetite changes
Weight changes
Changes in sleep schedule (including insomnia) or energy levels
Loss of interest in regular activities
Social withdrawal
Difficulty completing daily tasks
Difficulty with personal or sleep hygiene
Physical aches and pains without a clear physical cause
Engaging in self-harm or having thoughts of self-harm or suicide*

If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Text or call 988 or chat 988lifeline.org. Support is available 24/7. If you are experiencing trauma, support is available.

Why does relocation depression happen?

Relocation depression can occur due to the stress that moving often causes. Mental burnout is a leading cause of depression, and you may experience this state after planning a big move. However, knowing the potential causes and risk factors may help you to take action and prevent relocation depression.

Relocation depression might also be caused by the following:

Losing social connections near your previous home
Feeling far away from friends and family members
Feeling physically or mentally exhausted from moving
A disruption in routine
Fear of uncertainty
An increased financial burden
A new job or career opportunity
Feeling uncertain about your surroundings
Losing support services in your prior community
An underlying mental health concern

While we tend to associate stressors with negative changes in our lives, any change, positive or negative, can lead to stress and heighten your risk for depression. Even if you are excited about your relocation or living in a new location, the energy of adapting to a new place wears on you in ways that could lead to mental health challenges. If you think you may be experiencing relocation depression or an underlying mental illness, reach out for emotional support.

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Seven ways to cope with relocation depression

As time goes on, you may find it easier to handle any changes in routine or differences in your new life. In some cases, you could find that your new location provides benefits that your previous one did not. However, adjusting to changes can seem challenging, and there are ways to handle your symptoms in the meantime.

1. Get to know your new local area

You may find that familiarizing yourself with your new neighborhood alleviates symptoms of relocation depression. If you've recently moved to a new city, state, or country, consider exploring. Look up tourist attractions in your area to get an idea of how to become a tourist in your new home. You might find exciting or interesting activities available that weren't offered near your old home. Additionally, exploring could be a valuable way to make new friends or learn about the locals.

If you're experiencing relocation depression while out and about, consider taking pictures or videos of your new location and sending them to your family or friends from your old city. They might create some excitement for you and help raise your spirits. See if you can find a unique spot in nature or a hiking trail near your home. Studies show that spending time in nature or changing your location can benefit your mental health and ease symptoms of depression.

2. Make your home feel as comfortable as possible

When you first move to a new home, you may still have everything packed up in boxes. Symptoms of depression can make it seem challenging to unpack your things and settle in. However, clutter and mess can increase depression symptoms, according to one study. You may realize you feel more productive if you can unpack your boxes relatively quickly and make your home feel comfortable and familiar.

Having a safe space to unwind after a long day can feel cathartic. Once you've unpacked your boxes, consider adding decorations around the house that help you feel peaceful and calm.

If you don't have many decorations to unpack or put out, consider purchasing a few affordable items to help your environment feel more comfortable.

These items might include:

Incense or candles that help calm you
Wall art
Throw pillows or blankets
Curtains
Small decorative items to put on shelves
Photos of your parents, friends, or other people who support you

Create a space in your house where you can sit or lie down to feel comfortable. It may be a reading nook, a unique recliner, or a beanbag chair you can fall into. When feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or depressed, spend some time in that area participating in a calming activity, such as meditating or reading. Making your new house feel like home may take some time, but it is possible.

3. Practice self-care

Try not to neglect self-care in the process of moving. Commit to your mental well-being and stay committed to your hygiene as much as possible. Potential self-care activities can include:

Light exercise such as swimming, walking, or going to the gym
Deep breathing
Taking a shower
Eating three nutritious meals a day and snacking when needed
Listening to music
Spending time with your social circle
Journaling about your thoughts or emotions
Practicing yoga, meditation, or mindfulness
Stating self-love affirmations
Participating in a creative activity
Continuing to focus on your hobbies
Finding moments for laughter

4. Throw a housewarming party

If you feel uncomfortable in your new home, consider throwing a housewarming party to celebrate the beginning of this new chapter in your life.

If you have friends and family in the area, invite them to your new home. Doing so may motivate you to finish unpacking and clean up the house. You might also buy a few cheap party decorations and use your new kitchen to cook a housewarming meal.

If you're not up to a highly social event, invite only a few people for a calming or low-key activity like watching a football game or chatting under the stars while sipping a drink. That way, you can stay connected with a support network of friends or family while you adjust.

5. Give yourself time

Try to give yourself time to adjust to your new situation. Symptoms of relocation depression may lessen over time as you learn more about your neighborhood, home, and new city. It’s okay to spend more time at home or focus more on self-care if you experience symptoms of depression in the first few months after moving. It can be a significant transition, and your mind and body may require time to rest and recover.

6. Make new friends

If you’ve moved to a new environment where you lack a social circle, it can seem challenging to make new friends. Just like in post-college depression, being far from close friends is one of the reasons for relocation depression.

If this is the case, research social groups in your area. You might be able to join support groups or find a club that meets on a regular basis. If there’s an activity you've always wanted to try, consider signing up for a group course or excursion. For example, you could try rock climbing, hiking, pottery, art, or poetry to make new connections with people who have the same interests. See what's available where you live.

If your relocation has brought you to a more rural area, you might sign up to meet friends online. You might be able to get local tips from others on a friendship or dating app and meet someone for drinks or food. As you make new friends, your new home could start to seem less overwhelming, and you may feel a greater sense of hope for a happy future in your new location after relocation depression.

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7. Use mental health services

Finally, meeting with a counselor may be beneficial if you have a clinical diagnosis or you’re unable to relieve symptoms of relocation depression on your own. You can seek professional help through services provided by mental health clinics and other organizations. Therapists are trained in providing mental health services that can address depression and anxiety disorders, among other mental health conditions. If you experience relocation depression that worsens or lasts longer than a few weeks or months, your therapist can act as a support system during the healing process.

Finding a therapist can seem like another stressful task when you're in a new location. Many people who move to a new country where the culture or language is unfamiliar may experience mental health problems, including prior college students who might be at risk for post-college depression. Online counseling could be valuable for you.

Online therapy for relocation depression

Online counseling allows you to meet with a counselor or therapist from any location with an Internet connection and is often more affordable than traditional in-person counseling. A platform such as BetterHelp may be able to answer your questions about online therapy and match you with a therapist who can provide professional help for depression and other mental conditions or stressors. After evaluating your symptoms and overall medical history, including any risk factors for depression, a therapist can make a formal diagnosis and offer talk therapy. Different forms of talk therapy include family therapy, interpersonal therapy, and solution-focused therapy.

Studies indicate that internet-based counseling is significantly effective in helping people manage symptoms of isolation, loneliness, and depression. If you’ve recently experienced a big life event, such as moving, online therapy could be just as effective as traditional, in-person counseling. Overall, a therapist may be able to help support a person’s mental health and manage symptoms of major depressive disorder, an anxiety disorder, or an adjustment disorder, among other mental health problems.

Takeaway

Moving can be stressful whether you’re moving just to a new house down the street or to an entirely new country. Relocation depression commonly occurs after a move, as it is a significant life event. When coping with the symptoms of depression, it can be helpful to meet with a therapist to discuss your symptoms and develop a treatment plan. If you're ready to start, consider contacting an online counselor so that you can meet for sessions anytime, anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

Read more below for answers to questions commonly asked about this topic.

How long does it take for a new place to feel like home?

Moving from one place to another involves packing supplies and loading and labeling boxes of different sizes. It is a venture that can affect a person’s mental health in a big way. Even one’s behavioral health is not left out. When you arrive at the new destination, you are most likely tired of all the packing. You may also feel unsure of how long it will take for you to feel at home or be mentally ready to settle.

Then, perhaps you think it would be better for you to unpack and arrange your stuff so the new place can feel like home already. Even when you get past the unpacking, you have to search and search until you find your supplies as they are not in familiar spaces anymore. For some people, it takes them only a few days to feel at home. For many others, it takes months even to arrange the house. Even after arranging, others may need individual or family therapy to learn coping mechanisms and strategies to help the new environment feel like their home.

Why is moving so hard emotionally?

It is really difficult to tell how much local moving or long-distance moving may affect you or your relationships. Moving can be hard on a person emotionally because of a lot of reasons. For instance, living in a place for several years means you’re likely familiar and comfortable with the unique things in your city. You must have mapped out the environment and gotten used to the people around there. So, having to leave a family or a friend behind to start a new life in a new city where you would meet new people can be hard on your behavioral health.

Having to change your daily activities due to the necessity of creating a new daily routine based on your new location can result in depression or overwhelm, or just a general lack of interest in day-to-day activities. Also, keeping up with long-distance relationships with former colleagues, friends, and neighbors that you spent much of your time with before moving can make you feel sad. That’s because you know that relating with them from afar shifts the relationship to a new dynamic. It cannot be like when you could meet up with them a few blocks away. This isn’t necessarily bad, and it certainly doesn’t mean that these relationships will become less meaningful; just that they will be different and will need to adapt.

How do you cope with the stress of relocating to a new place?

Since moving to the new place was in some way necessary for you or your family, it is important that you learn how to cope with it for your mental health. Dealing with moving to a new place, whether it is a local move or a long-distance move, is possible. What can be quite beneficial is working on reducing stress.

For example, rather than rushing the relocation, you can move moving day to a time when you have prepared mentally. Also, keep a positive attitude toward the situation. Be cheerful that you can meet new people and go to places you only could imagine. Then, establish a support system for yourself. It can be in a family or even local support groups around you. Remember to engage in daily self-care activities to help keep yourself grounded, such as simple mindfulness exercises, going for walks, taking a bath, lighting candles that you like, eating your favorite comfort food, and so on.

Don’t be afraid to find a support group, a resource center, or perhaps a book club or neighborhood meetings. You can also seek professional help as an individual or as a family for family therapy. For example, family therapy helps you improve your behavioral health and overall mental health. So, rather than resorting to excessive sleeping or extreme consumption of alcohol and drugs as treatment, or eating disorders, which are symptoms of depression, your mental health becomes stabilized.

How do I stop being sad about moving?

There are a couple of reasons that feelings of sadness might come with a move, and that can be part of determining what you can do to get into a more positive mental mind frame. It could be nostalgia, a matter of adjustment, or you may find that you feel lonely. The sadness might come right away, or it could come after the initial excitement of a move passes. It could also ebb and flow. For example, feelings of sadness might come when you miss old friends, even if you are still happy that you moved after you take the first step and start adjusting to your new place. Stay connected with people and consider finding a fun activity in the area.

Is it normal to regret moving?

Some people do regret moving, whereas others do not. This is dependent on a number of factors. It is also possible to experience feelings of regret at first but feel that it was the best choice for you, or you and your family, long-term. Sometimes it just takes time.

How long does it take to settle after moving?

Everyone takes a different amount of time to settle after they move to a new home. Sometimes, there will be an additional level of adjustment if you make a big move, rather than simply moving to a new house in the same area. It is important to take care of both your physical health and mental well-being during this time. Sometimes, self-care activities and other tools, like meditation or mental health apps, can be helpful during a tough time. However, these things do not replace professional support if you need it. Remember that anyone can benefit from therapy, and don’t hesitate to reach out if you think that it’s something you may find helpful.

Do people get depressed when they move?

Some people do get depressed when they move. Moving to a different town, state, country, or even just neighborhood can be tough, especially if you were already struggling with your mental health or didn’t want to move in the first place. Depending on the circumstances, moving may mean having to part ways with old friends and family and starting a brand new life with no support system nearby. But is not only those who weren’t keen on moving that can get depressed. Even people who plan a big move because there’s something exciting waiting for them at their new destination can experience feelings of sadness once the initial excitement wears off. Luckily, these emotions are often temporary. If you find yourself unable to cope with overwhelming feelings of sadness even as you start adjusting, try these tips:

Seek professional help. Relocation depression can be successfully managed with therapy and sometimes medication. If you just moved to a new city and still aren’t sure where to get professional support, consider signing up for online therapy services through BetterHelp.
Stay connected with your loved ones. It goes without saying that there’s no need to stop being friends with your friends or close with your family just because you moved away. In fact, some people find themselves becoming closer to old friends and loved ones when they move away because they feel the need to reach out more often than when they lived closer.
Find a support group. Support groups, or any group for that matter, are a fantastic way of meeting people that you're interested in when you’re new in town. There are also many online support groups that connect you with people going through similar situations from across the globe.
Prioritize self-care activities. Join a book club, reach out to an elderly family, sign up for a local fun activity, or try arts and crafts and DIYs to help make your new home feel like home – in other words, find activities that spark joy and help you feel like yourself even if you no longer are at your familiar spaces. Self-care also means paying attention to your daily habits to see if you’re developing unhealthy partners, such as excessive sleeping, eating too little or too much, or using alcohol and drugs as a coping mechanism

What is moving anxiety?

Relocation anxiety is a sense of overwhelming stress, apprehension, uneasiness, or dread about moving to a new house, city, town, etc. These feelings can arise months or weeks before the move or during the moving day itself, and they can linger for a few days or weeks. If you just moved or are about to move and anxiety is keeping you from doing your daily activities or affecting your overall mental health, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. One benefit of online therapy, if you are moving soon, is that you don’t have to interrupt the continuity of your treatment or sessions once you get to the new place. If you are interested in starting online therapy through BetterHelp, the first step is to get matched with a licensed mental health provider. Click here to get started.

Questions to explore with a mental health professional:

Why does moving to a new place cause so much stress and anxiety?

There are many different aspects of moving to a new place that can contribute to stress and anxiety. These include having to navigate the many logistics of moving, leaving your existing support system, feeling far away from loved ones, dealing with the uncertainty of a new place, the added costs of moving, having to create a new routine, and more. Together, these and other factors can add up to create a very stressful situation.

How do the places you live impact your mental health?

Location can impact mental health in a variety of ways, including how close you are to supportive friends and family, your available career options and economic prospects, the dynamics of your surrounding community, and the availability of physical and mental health resources.

How is relocation stress syndrome defined?

Relocation stress syndrome has been defined by researchers as “physiologic and/or psychosocial disturbances as a result of transfer from one environment to another”. Often used in the context of older adults, it can involve emotional symptoms such as loneliness and low mood, physical symptoms such as sleep disturbances and gastrointestinal issues, and more.

What is the most difficult part about moving to a new place?

Different people may find different parts about moving to be the most challenging, but major stressors can include having to rebuild a support system and having to adjust to the many different aspects of daily life in this new place.

How long does relocation depression last?

Relocation depression may last a few weeks or months. If you are experiencing situational depression that worsens or persists, consider speaking with a mental health professional for support.

Why is one’s mental well-being worse in the rural parts of the country?

Different people may find that different environments and locations better suit their mental health, and different areas can present unique challenges and opportunities for well-being. In rural areas, some challenges might include limited availability of health services and distance from friends and family.

Can relocating be a traumatic experience?

In some cases and for some people, relocating can be a traumatic experience, especially depending on the circumstances surrounding their move.

How can a mental health professional help you manage the stress of moving?

A mental health professional can help you gain insight into the various parts of moving that are causing you the most stress, and then help you develop coping strategies to support your mental health and emotional well-being. Different coping strategies may work best for different people. For instance, if someone is experiencing difficulty concentrating due to stress, using breathing exercises, meditation, and other forms of mindfulness might be helpful. Other strategies might include journaling, getting regular physical activity, and connecting with trusted loved ones.

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