Nourishing Your Postpartum Body: A Mental Health Guide For New Moms

Medically reviewed by Julie Dodson, MA, LCSW
Updated August 9, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

The postpartum period is often overwhelming for new parents. The excitement of a newborn frequently comes with the equally demanding task of recovery, making this time both rewarding and exhausting. The various physical and emotional shifts that occur can affect mental health.  

You may experience pain, discomfort, and fatigue while bonding with your baby and taking care of yourself. Thoughtfully addressing these transitions can cultivate a nurturing space that supports the well-being of both parent and child. If you’re having trouble during this time, consider reaching out to a licensed mental health professional for support and guidance.

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Understanding postpartum changes

Following childbirth, your body typically experiences numerous transformations as it starts the healing and adjustment process. Vaginal discharge, or lochia, may continue for a few weeks postpartum. Additionally, stretch marks and breast engorgement can be common as your body adjusts. Recognizing and accepting these changes without judgment can help you embrace your postpartum journey.

After childbirth, emotional fluctuations, commonly known as the "baby blues," might be present. Research indicates as many as 76% of new mothers experience these mood changes within days or weeks after giving birth. These symptoms usually subside quickly without any intervention. Risk factors for maternity blues can include stressful life events during pregnancy, a history of depression, and inadequate social support.

Temporary mood changes are often linked to hormonal shifts. However, they may be a risk factor for more severe mood disorders, including postpartum depression (PPD) and postpartum psychosis, which usually require professional treatment.

Physical recovery

Physical recovery after giving birth normally involves several key areas, each requiring attention and care. Focusing on nourishment can aid your recovery and positively impact your mental health. 

Protein-rich foods, such as lean meats, beans, and nuts, can help repair tissues and build strength. Additionally, incorporating fruits and vegetables can provide essential vitamins and minerals that aid in overall recovery. Hydration may be equally vital; drinking plenty of water can help your body function optimally.

Gentle pelvic floor exercises can strengthen the muscles affected by vaginal birth. The pelvic floor muscles typically support the pelvic organs, including the bladder and uterus. Engaging in exercises targeting these muscles can improve posture, increase blood flow, and potentially enhance sexual function.

Physical movement can have a positive impact on mental health, making gentle exercises like walking and yoga beneficial for recovering mothers. Studies indicate that exercise can reduce depressive symptoms and may prevent postpartum depression. Whether it's a stroll around the neighborhood or attending a postnatal yoga class, incorporating physical activity into your postpartum routine can support both your physical and mental well-being.

Emotional well-being and mental health

With new responsibilities and changes, the postpartum period can be emotionally challenging. Building a self-care routine filled with enjoyable and relaxing activities can support your emotional state. 

Here are some ways you can prioritize your mental well-being:

  • Connecting with others: Connecting with a supportive network of family, friends, and support groups can provide a sense of community and understanding. Sharing your experiences and feelings with others who have gone through similar situations can be reassuring and uplifting.
  • Asking for help: During the postpartum period, it's okay to ask for help from your partner, family members, or friends. This support can allow you to focus on your well-being and recovery.
  • Prioritizing rest: Lack of sleep tends to be a common challenge for new parents. Making rest a priority by taking naps when possible and asking for help with nighttime feedings can aid in managing fatigue and promoting better mental health.
  • Seeking professional help: If you find yourself experiencing intense emotions or symptoms, such as prolonged sadness or anxiety, professional help can provide the necessary tools to manage your mental health during this transition.

Your emotional health can directly impact your well-being and ability to care for your child. Feeling persistently sad, experiencing severe mood swings, or having difficulty bonding with your baby could indicate the need for professional support. Seeking help from a healthcare provider can guide you toward the appropriate resources and treatments.

Managing physical discomfort

Postpartum recovery often involves managing various physical discomforts. Understanding and addressing these discomforts can improve your emotional state. For instance, experiencing abdominal pain or discomfort can be common as your body heals. Using warm compresses or taking prescribed pain relief medication may alleviate these sensations.

Breast engorgement can also be a source of discomfort. Ensuring proper breastfeeding techniques or using breast pumps can relieve this issue. Communication with a lactation consultant can help you face challenges with breastfeeding and promote a positive experience.

Additionally, taking time to rest and allowing your body to heal can promote sustainable long-term recovery. While it might be tempting to resume regular activities quickly, giving yourself permission to recover at your own pace can be a more compassionate and healthy approach.

Incorporating physical activity 

Engaging in physical activity postpartum can enhance both your physical and mental health. Starting with gentle exercises, such as walking or stretching, can gradually reintroduce movement into your routine without overwhelming your body.

As recovery continues, the intensity of workouts can be gradually increased. Listening to your body's cues and avoiding excessive exertion can be key. Seeking advice from a healthcare provider before starting a new exercise plan can ensure it meets your personal needs.

Here are some ways to incorporate physical activity into your postpartum routine:

  • Stroller walks: Taking a walk with your baby in a stroller generally allows you to spend quality time together while getting some fresh air and exercise.
  • “Mommy and me” classes: Many fitness centers offer classes specifically for new moms and their babies, providing an opportunity for both physical activity and social connection.
  • Yoga or Pilates: These low-impact exercises can help improve strength, flexibility, and mental relaxation.
  • Gentle strength training: Strengthening your muscles can aid in postpartum recovery and reduce the risk of injury during daily activities.

Remember to always listen to your body, and don't push yourself too hard. Exercise should be an enjoyable and healthy activity, free from stress or harm. Prioritizing self-care through exercise can improve your overall well-being during the postpartum period.  

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Addressing emotional challenges

The postpartum period often involves a complex emotional journey. Experiencing a mix of joy, excitement, anxiety, and sadness can be common. Acknowledging and managing these emotions can make this time a bit smoother.

Practicing mindfulness and relaxation techniques, including meditation or deep breathing, can help you manage stress and promote emotional balance. Setting aside time each day for these practices can create a sense of calm and focus.

Having a strong support system can also impact your postpartum experience. Surrounding yourself with people who understand and support your journey can make a positive difference in your mental health.

Engaging with online or in-person support groups for new moms can provide a sense of community. These groups usually offer opportunities to discuss challenges, share tips, and celebrate successes with others who are navigating the same journey.

Involving your partner or close family members in your postpartum care can also create a supportive environment. Open communication about your needs and feelings can foster a stronger sense of understanding and connection.

Experiencing emotional overwhelm or difficulty coping might indicate the need for professional support. Postpartum depression and anxiety are treatable conditions that many new moms experience after giving birth. A therapist can provide guidance and assistance to help navigate this challenging period.

Online therapy can offer several benefits for postpartum moms, including affordable care and flexible scheduling. This accessibility can enable new parents to receive professional support without the added stress of travel or high costs, ensuring they can connect with a therapist who understands their unique needs.

Studies suggest that online interventions can effectively alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety in parents with postpartum depression. 

As you navigate the ups and downs of postpartum recovery, your emotional health tends to be just as important as your physical health. Remember to prioritize self-care, seek support when needed, and give yourself grace during this significant life transition.

Takeaway

The postpartum period can be unique and challenging, often requiring patience, self-care, and support. Prioritizing your health, both physical and emotional, can positively impact your baby and loved ones. Treating yourself and your body with kindness may foster a healthier recovery journey. In-person or online therapy can be an extra resource for new parents, offering accessible and effective support during the postpartum experience.
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