Developing A Night Time Routine For Quality Sleep

Medically reviewed by Laura Angers Maddox, NCC, LPC
Updated October 8, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

In today’s fast-paced world, quality sleep often falls by the wayside. Many adults struggle to get enough sleep, frequently leading to detrimental effects on their physical health, mental well-being, and overall quality of life. Developing a consistent night time routine can significantly improve sleep quality, helping you wake up refreshed and ready to tackle the day. An effective bedtime routine might include relaxing activities like taking a bath, brushing your teeth, reading, stretching, and practicing mindfulness. If you struggle to stick to a routine or consistently have trouble falling asleep due to stress, consider reaching out to a licensed mental health professional for support.

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The benefits of quality sleep

Quality sleep can be crucial for maintaining optimal health and well-being. Here are some of its key benefits:

Improved cognitive function

Getting enough restful sleep can enhance cognitive functions like memory, attention, and problem-solving. When you fall asleep, your brain typically consolidates information from the day, making it easier to recall facts and experiences later.

Better physical health

Quality sleep can be essential for the body's repair and maintenance processes. During sleep, the body usually releases growth hormones that aid in muscle repair, tissue growth, and overall healing. A consistent sleep routine may also regulate blood pressure and support cardiovascular health.

Enhanced emotional well-being

Adequate sleep appears to be closely linked to emotional regulation. Poor sleep quality can increase stress levels and contribute to mood disorders like anxiety and depression. On the other hand, a good night's sleep can reduce stress and improve overall mood.

Stronger immune system

Sleep can be said to play a vital role in supporting the immune system. During sleep, the body normally produces cytokines, which are proteins that can fight infection and inflammation. Consistent, restful sleep can therefore enhance your body's ability to fend off illnesses.

Tips for developing a night time routine

Creating a night routine that promotes restful sleep usually involves several steps, and it can be important to choose a routine that suits your needs. Some tips for developing an effective night routine include the following: 

  1. Set a consistent bedtime: Going to bed at the same time every night can regulate your body's internal clock, making it easier to fall asleep and wake up at the same time each day.
  2. Limit blue light exposure: The blue light from screens can interfere with your ability to fall asleep by suppressing melatonin production. Try to avoid using electronic devices for at least an hour before bedtime. Instead, you might read a book or listen to calming music.
  3. Create a relaxing environment: Make your bedroom a comfortable and inviting place to sleep by keeping the room cool, dark, and quiet. Consider using blackout curtains, earplugs, or a white noise machine to reduce distractions.
  4. Follow a skincare routine: Incorporating a skincare regimen into your night routine can signal to your body that it's time to wind down while promoting skin health with ingredients like hyaluronic acid.
  5. Take a warm bath: A warm bath can relax your muscles and reduce stress, making it easier to transition into sleep mode.
  6. Brush your teeth: Brushing your teeth can be a simple but important part of a bedtime routine. It may not only enhance dental health but can also signal to your brain that it's time to get ready for bed.
  7. Create a to-do list for the next day: Writing down your tasks for the next day can clear your mind and reduce anxiety, potentially making it easier to fall asleep without worrying about everything you need to remember in the morning.
  8. Avoid caffeine and heavy meals before bed: Consuming caffeine or heavy meals close to bedtime can disrupt your sleep, so try to avoid these for at least a few hours before going to bed. Herbal tea and a light snack may be better options.
  9. Practice relaxation techniques: Techniques like deep breathing, meditation, and gentle stretching can calm your mind and body, making it easier to fall asleep.
  10. Limit naps during the day: While brief naps early in the day can be beneficial, taking long or late naps can interfere with nighttime sleep. 

How therapy can help

Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we may still struggle with sleep. In such cases, therapy can be a valuable resource, particularly when sleep troubles stem from stress and other mental health challenges. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) usually focuses on identifying and adjusting negative thought patterns and replacing them with more constructive ones. CBT for insomnia may focus on determining whether you have any unhelpful beliefs related to sleep and adjusting them accordingly.

There are a few ways therapy can improve sleep quality:

  1. Promoting stress management: Therapy can teach techniques to manage and reduce stress, which tends to be a common cause of sleep disturbances. Learning how to cope with stress can significantly improve your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.
  2. Addressing underlying mental health disorders: Conditions like anxiety and depression can affect sleep quality. Therapy can address these disorders, potentially leading to better sleep.
  3. Developing healthy sleep habits: A therapist can work with you to develop a personalized night routine that promotes restful sleep. They can provide guidance on sleep hygiene practices and help you stick to them.
  4. Teaching mindfulness and relaxation techniques: Therapists can teach mindfulness and relaxation techniques that can be incorporated into your bedtime routine to induce sleep.

While many people enjoy attending therapy in person, this may not always be an option. For example, if you haven’t been getting enough sleep, you may not be comfortable driving to a therapist’s office for treatment. Online therapy can enable you to attend sessions with a licensed mental health professional from the convenience and comfort of your home. You may even choose to schedule sessions shortly before bedtime so that you can practice relaxation techniques with your therapist before going to sleep for the night.

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Research suggests that online therapy can effectively treat insomnia, as well as mental health disorders that may contribute to insomnia. For example, a 2023 study reported that “dCBT-I (digital cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia) seems to be effective in alleviating insomnia and depression and might be considered as a viable treatment option for depression.”

Takeaway

Developing a night routine can be a powerful way to improve sleep quality and overall well-being. By setting a consistent bedtime, creating a relaxing environment, and incorporating healthy habits like a skincare routine and relaxation techniques, you can prepare your body and mind for restful sleep. Additionally, online or in-person therapy can provide valuable support in addressing underlying concerns that may interfere with sleep.
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