How Are Neuroticism And Mood Swings Related?

Medically reviewed by April Justice, LICSW
Updated October 15, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Certain individuals may find that small setbacks disrupt their entire day or that minor criticisms affect their mood much more than compliments. These experiences could point to a character trait known as neuroticism, which may cause relatively trivial matters to evoke strong reactions. Neuroticism may be linked to intense anxiety, self-doubt, and negative emotions. Recent research from Leipzig University shows that individuals with high levels of neuroticism tend to experience more mood swings than those with lower levels. This research suggests that neuroticism may greatly affect an individual's emotional health, amplify negative feelings, and lead to frequent mood changes. If you experience neuroticism and mood swings, online therapy may be a helpful source of support and guidance.

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Neuroticism as a personality trait

Neuroticism is usually categorized as one of the Big Five personality traits, which also include openness to experience, conscientiousness, extraversion, and agreeableness. Someone with high neuroticism scores may be more likely to experience negative emotions like self-doubt, anger, and irritability. They might be more prone to mood swings and emotional instability, which could lead to neurotic traits that affect various aspects of their lives.

The causes behind neuroticism may be traced to genetic and environmental factors. Certain individuals may be born with specific genes that may make them more likely to experience negative emotions. In contrast, others may develop neurotic tendencies in response to challenging experiences or high stress levels.

Although people with high neuroticism scores tend to be more self-conscious and reactive to stress, this personality trait typically exists on a continuum. In other words, people can experience varying degrees of neuroticism.

Sometimes, having some level of neuroticism may be beneficial, as it may make people more adaptable. A person who is aware of their level of neuroticism may be able to find effective ways to manage it.

Aspects of neurotic behavior

Neurotic behaviors may lead to significantly more negative emotions, potentially creating a vicious cycle. Here’s a look at some behaviors typically observed in individuals who are high in neuroticism:

  • Rumination: Neurotic individuals may obsessively dwell on past events or negative experiences. They might find it challenging to let go and move forward.
  • Excess worry: People with high neuroticism scores may be more likely to experience increased anxiety. They might spend considerable time worrying about various aspects of their lives.
  • Extreme emotions: Those with a high level of neuroticism tend to experience negative emotions more strongly than others, even in the face of similar situations or challenges.
  • Mood swings: A hallmark of neuroticism can be rapid fluctuations in mood. Individuals who score high on neuroticism may experience frequent changes in their emotional state, quickly swinging between extremes.

One of the main characteristics of individuals who are highly neurotic can be their increased sensitivity to negative emotions. This sensitivity may drive neurotic behaviors and increase the risk of intense mood swings or strong emotional reactions to daily life events.

The impact of neuroticism and mood swings on mental health

Neuroticism can greatly affect a person’s mental health. Individuals with high levels of neuroticism often experience more negative emotions in everyday life, which can make it challenging for a person to effectively manage their emotional state.

Because of constant mood swings, individuals with high neuroticism may have other co-existing mental health conditions, such as anxiety disorders or major depressive disorder. If neuroticism is co-occurring with mental health conditions, it may be important to seek professional help for managing and improving mental health.

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Neuroticism and its impact on relationships

Having high levels of neuroticism may affect relationships. Because individuals with this trait often feel strong negative emotions and have frequent mood swings, they might find interactions with others challenging. For example, they might react strongly to minor hurdles in romantic relationships, which could lead to misunderstandings or conflicts.

They might also find it challenging to express their feelings, which could affect their ability to connect deeply with others. Their mood swings may confuse friends, family, or partners who might not understand why their moods change so quickly.

Communication is often a key part of managing the effects of neuroticism on relationships. Talking openly about feelings may help others understand what someone with high neuroticism is experiencing. Seeking different forms of help, such as therapy, may provide useful strategies for managing mood swings and improving relationships.

Managing life with neuroticism

Living with neuroticism can be challenging, but some strategies may help manage it. Useful strategies may include understanding stress and negative emotions, practicing mindfulness, and seeking psychotherapy. Every person is unique, so it may take time to figure out what works.

Adapting to stress and negative emotions

Managing stress and negative emotions is often key to managing neuroticism. One way to build resilience can be by identifying what's causing stress and finding ways to manage it. This may involve setting realistic goals, making a to-do list, and using effective time management skills. Maintaining a balanced lifestyle through regular exercise, healthy eating habits, and adequate sleep can also help.

Another approach may be accepting and tolerating negative emotions instead of suppressing or avoiding them. Emotional regulation techniques may be helpful with this approach. For instance, cognitive reframing generally involves changing your perspective on situations and experiences to view them more positively.

Mindfulness practices

Mindfulness practices, such as meditation, may benefit those living with neuroticism. These techniques usually encourage individuals to focus on the present moment and their thoughts without judgment.

Some mindfulness exercises to explore may include deep breathing exercises, body scan meditations, and loving-kindness meditations. Incorporating these practices into a daily routine may improve your mental health and emotional stability.

Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy may be effective in helping individuals manage neuroticism. In particular, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) may be useful in tackling neuroticism-related mental health conditions, such as anxiety and depression. CBT normally works by identifying the thoughts and beliefs that may be causing emotional distress and replacing them with healthier or more adaptive alternatives.

Another type of therapy is psychodynamic therapy. Psychodynamic therapy often allows individuals to explore their unconscious thoughts and emotions to better understand their feelings and behaviors. This deeper self-awareness may support personal growth and improve overall mental well-being.

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Benefits of online therapy

Online therapy can be a convenient and accessible way to work through mental health challenges like neuroticism and mood swings. Students and working professionals alike can often access therapeutic support without needing to schedule lengthy in-person appointments or spend time commuting to counseling offices. Another potential advantage of online therapy is being matched with a highly skilled professional from a wider pool of licensed therapists. Online therapy platforms often match users with therapists based on their needs, preferences, location, and circumstances.

Effectiveness of online therapy

Studies suggest that online therapy methods like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) may be effective for mental health care. One study demonstrated that most participants experienced a marked decrease in neuroticism after going through treatment consisting of online cognitive-behavioral therapy.

Takeaway

Neuroticism can be defined as a personality trait in which people tend to feel negative emotions like self-doubt, irritability, and sadness more frequently than others. Research shows this trait may be linked to increased mood swings and other mental health conditions. People with high neuroticism not only tend to feel stronger negative emotions, but may also experience more mood changes. These mood changes can affect their daily lives and overall happiness. However, individuals with high levels of neuroticism may be able to adopt strategies to manage their mood swings and understand their emotional patterns. With the right strategies and support, such as online therapy, they may lead balanced lives and lessen the effects of negative emotions on their mental health.

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