When Do Kids Learn To Read? (And How Can Parents Help?)

Medically reviewed by Dr. April Brewer, DBH, LPC
Updated October 17, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Being able to read is generally considered to be a major milestone in a child’s life, marking the start of the formation of a lifelong learning skill that can greatly impact one’s quality of life. From reading books every night to working on homework for hours, it can be a process to get a child to the point of being able to read on their own.

While there is a timeline that many children might follow on their journey to reading alone, not all children follow the same path. Some might start reading sooner, while others may need more time. Before getting too worried about your child’s progress, it can be helpful to make sure you have realistic expectations. As a parent, you might find that the best thing you can do to help your child learn to read is to keep encouraging them—no matter what.

Below, we’ve summarized helpful tips to help you maximize value throughout your child’s learning experience.

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When do kids start reading?

The answer to this question may surprise you, simply because it can be difficult to remember when you yourself might have started to read. 

We do want to note: Having realistic expectations about when and how your child might start reading can enhance your child’s learning journey.

Generally speaking, every kid will develop their reading skills at a different pace, so it can be helpful for them if you can remain patient as they learn.

Although every child might read at a different time, here is a general timeline of what you can expect at each age:

0-12 months

At this age, babies can listen to (and enjoy) a book being read, even if they don’t understand what’s being said. They can turn the pages of the book and touch any pictures or 3D features on the pages. They might react to the storybook by making sounds such as cooing or laughing.

1-2 Years

By the time kids are 1-2 years old, they can normally recognize and name common things in a book (such as a bowl, a dog or a baby). They might have a favorite storybook by this time, and might have certain phrases or words memorized from the book. 

At this age, they can turn the pages of the books you read together, and may even pretend they’re reading by creating their own storylines.

Preschoolers

Preschoolers might experience a big leap in their reading skills. By the time a child is in preschool, they may know that books are read from left to right and from top to bottom. They can hear a story and repeat it, often memorizing several of their favorite stories. 

At this age, they also might recognize many of the letters of the alphabet and can spot words that rhyme with one another. Kids might begin sounding out words in preschool.

Kindergartners

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Kids around 5 years of age, or who are in kindergarten, may know what sound each letter of the alphabet makes. Although they still have to sound out some words, many others can now be recognizable and understood without having to sound them out. 

They may begin to spot the words they hear out loud as being the same words they see on a page. Stories that interest children in this age group might become more detailed and complex at this age, and kids might be able to ask and answer questions concerning who, what, where, when, why and how. 

Many kids begin to take a genuine interest in reading or being read to when they’re in kindergarten.

6-7 Years

By 6-7 years, most kids might be reading. They might also be starting to learn and use spelling rules at this age. They can become faster at reading and might be better at pronouncing words. They can figure out what unfamiliar words mean and know to go back to re-read a sentence when it doesn’t make sense the first time. 

Many might observe that beyond six to seven years of age, kids can switch from learning to read to reading to learn. 

We do want to note that if you are ever concerned about the progress your child is making, you can always try speaking with their teacher first. There may be additional resources available that can catch them up. Or, to your surprise, you might find that they are in fact right on track. You can also speak with your child’s pediatrician or doctor about any concerns you might be having about their development. Professionals generally know best and will be able to give you the most helpful advice for your child’s specific needs.

How to help your child read

Here are some helpful tips that can help you guide your child along toward a lifelong love for reading:

  • Read to them aloud or have them read to you
  • Keep books in their bedroom, the car or anywhere else they might frequent
  • Be animated when reading to them (especially with infants)
  • Talk to them frequently about every kind of topic, whether or not you are currently reading 
  • Teach letter sounds
  • Use songs or rhymes throughout their day
  • Let them choose what book to read
  • Read labels, signs, billboards and any other text you see as you ee it

Online therapy can help parents boost their confidence

Generally speaking, every parent wants to see their child grow and achieve. Many parents might feel as if they have the ability to help their kids thrive—and some might feel equally overwhelmed or underequipped for the tasks of raising a child and teaching them how to read. If you feel like you’re overwhelmed or alone, remember that you aren’t. Online therapy services like BetterHelp can be a helpful resource for parents who need an outlet to vent to or extra support throughout the week. 

We do want to note: Many parents appreciate the approachability and accessibility that online therapy has to offer, possibly lowering barriers to treatment that would otherwise exist with in-person methods. You may want to experiment to determine which option is the strongest for you. 

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Is online therapy effective? 

Online therapy can be beneficial for a variety of mental health conditions. Research has found data that suggests that in many cases, online therapy can be as effective as in-person therapy (if not more so). 

Recent data published in the Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review suggests this level of benefit, noting that online therapy has strong support both empirically and based on patient and practitioner experiences. There was no notable difference observed by researchers between online and in-person delivery methods. 

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Takeaway

Parenting and teaching children core skill sets can feel overwhelming. However, it can be possible to instill a love of learning in your child with the resources that you have available to you. Reading along with your child, letting them lead the reading time and narrating your daily life can all be helpful steps to cementing this love of reading early on. Online therapy can also be a helpful resource to parents who are looking for emotional support throughout the process of child-rearing. BetterHelp can connect you with an online therapist in your area of need.
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