What Are The Signs Of An Addictive Personality Disorder?

Medically reviewed by Julie Dodson, MA, LCSW
Updated October 18, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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Addictions are thought to arise due to a variety of factors, some of which may be inherent in an individual’s personality. Addiction can lead to serious challenges surrounding relationships, work, and mental and physical health; so it can be helpful to know how to identify signs that are thought to be associated with its development. Though there isn’t one personality type thought to lead to addiction, there are certain factors—impulsivity, other mental health conditions, risk-taking behavior, etc.—that may contribute to addictive behaviors or substance dependency. In this article, we’re going to discuss several common addictive personality traits and how you can navigate their potential effects. 

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What is an addictive personality?

While experts believe there is not one specific personality type that’s more prone to addictive personality disorder than others, there are several traits that can contribute to the likelihood that a person will become addicted to a substance or behavior.

These include genetics, family history of addiction, having another addiction, the need for excitement or thrill, impulsivity, or difficulty quitting. One of the most common factors underlying addiction is the feeling of reward, which is experienced in the brain as the chemical dopamine is released, and in turn makes a person feel satisfied.

Addiction can be a sign of common mental health disorders, including substance use disorders and impulse-control disorder. Someone with addictive personality traits may experience alcohol dependency or other substance addiction. They may also display addictive behavior related to activities, such as gambling, playing video games, or eating.  

What are the signs of an addictive personality?

While people can express addiction in various ways, there are several characteristics and factors that can indicate the presence of an unhealthy relationship with a substance or behavior in an individual’s life. The following are common addictive personality traits.

Impulsivity

A person with an addictive personality may have an increased propensity for risky behavior and acting without fully considering the consequences. Research shows that impulsivity is a common trait in those experiencing addiction. A lack of inhibition can impact an individual’s ability to abstain from addictive behavior or stop once they have started. For example, someone who is addicted to alcohol may be easily persuaded to have a drink, even if they have obligations. 

Comorbid mental health conditions

There is a proven connection between addiction and various mental health disorders, including depression, anxiety, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, and bipolar disorder. Some people with mental health challenges use substances or addictive behaviors to cope with their symptoms. Additionally, substance use disorder and other addiction-related conditions can exacerbate or cause mental health challenges. 

Disregarding negative outcomes

Someone with addictive traits may continue to engage in harmful behaviors even as those activities impact their health, work, or relationships in negative ways. For example, a person who is addicted to gambling may experience serious financial consequences but struggle to stop this behavior; or a person who is addicted to alcohol may continue drinking despite developing physical health concerns. 

Trouble stopping 

Difficulty ceasing an addictive behavior goes along with the trait of impulsivity mentioned earlier. For example, a person who is addicted to gaming may play for hours without realizing that a significant amount of time has passed. There is a neurobiological reason for trouble stopping addictive behavior—the brain’s reward system produces a dopamine boost when an individual engages with their addiction. For someone with addictive traits, the desire to feel the effects of an increase in dopamine can make it hard to stop the activity.

Obsessing

Obsessions are marked by an intense focus on one subject or activity, and they are thought to be common in people who experience addiction. For example, there is a proven link between obsessive-compulsive disorder—in which obsessions are a primary characteristic—and substance use disorder. An individual with addictive personality traits may become so focused on the object of their obsession that they eschew their responsibilities. 

Negative relationship effects

Because of their behaviors, a person with an addictive personality disorder may have strained relationships. They may become dishonest with their partner, family members, and friends; or their addiction can cause them to stop spending as much time with loved ones. Some people with addictive traits become withdrawn in order to avoid interactions that may prevent them from engaging with their addiction. 

Secrecy

Many people with addictive personality traits want to avoid worrying loved ones or feeling shame that may be associated with their addiction. This can lead them to participate in addictive behaviors alone. An individual with alcohol dependency, for example, may bring a flask to events so that they can drink when they’re alone. This can make it harder for others to recognize the addiction and cause the individual to isolate.

Managing the effects of an addictive personality

People with addictive personality traits can learn to control their addictions. While a comprehensive treatment plan developed by a healthcare professional is often necessary to reduce addictive behaviors, there are also several proven strategies that may reduce symptoms and increase the chances of recovery.   

Journal 

Journaling can help individuals process their feelings surrounding an addiction while also reducing symptoms of anxiety, stress, and depression. Additionally, journaling can help someone with addictive traits track their progress and identify situations that may frequently lead them to engage with their addiction. For example, by reviewing journal entries, an individual may realize that they often drink alcohol when they are with certain friends or family members. They may also be able to recognize which strategies have been effective in managing addiction. 

Journaling can also help address symptoms of comorbid mental health conditions, such as anxiety or depression. In fact, research suggests that journaling can produce both mental and physical health benefits

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Give yourself grace

If you are living with addiction, you may be experiencing mixed emotions. It can help to remember that addictive personality traits are often signs of a mental health condition (e.g., substance use disorder, impulse-control disorder). As with other illnesses, addiction can happen to anyone, and it is not a sign of weakness or a deficiency. If you’re addressing an addiction, try to be forgiving and understanding toward yourself. 

Practice self-care 

Nurturing your mental and physical well-being can help you reduce stress, boost your energy, and better manage an addiction. Many self-care activities can directly reduce the effects of an addiction. For example, eating a balanced diet and exercising can help improve outcomes when it comes to a food addiction. Self-care can comprise everything from taking a long bath to doing a jigsaw puzzle to exercising. 

Develop a support network

Studies show that social support can provide significant benefits when it comes to mental health. Talking about your emotions with someone you trust can be cathartic, giving you an outlet for your feelings. Discussing an addiction be particularly helpful if you’ve been keeping it a secret. A loved can provide you with insights into your situation that you hadn’t considered. They may have even been through the same things as you and might have tips for addressing certain addictive traits. 

Consider developing a support network of people you trust. This can include friends, family members, mentors, co-workers, and a mental health professional. You can also find support groups that are based around certain addictions. These can connect you with people who have gone through, or are still going through, similar challenges as you. Consider searching for groups that meet in your area or virtually. 

Managing the effects of addictive traits with online therapy

If you’re living with an addiction, professional counselors can help you identify addictive personality traits and work through the challenges an addiction can present. Studies show that online therapy can help individuals address addictive behavior and improve the odds of recovery. For example, in a study published in the American Journal of Psychiatry, researchers examined the benefits of online therapy for those experiencing addiction, finding that treatment doubled the likelihood of abstinence in individuals who entered the program still engaging in substance use. The study also mentioned the increased availability provided by online therapy platforms. 

Online therapy is a convenient and flexible way for you to address an addiction or a similar mental health-related concern. With an online therapy platform like BetterHelp, you can work with your therapist to identify potential addictive personality traits remotely, through video call, voice call, or in-app messaging. Your therapist can also connect you with useful resources, such as articles or at-home exercises that will allow you to address the effects of addiction on your own time. 

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Takeaway

There are various factors that can influence the likelihood that an individual experiences an addiction, including impulsivity, environmental factors, obsessive behavior, and various mental health conditions. There are also, however, many ways to mitigate the negative effects of addiction. If you want more information on how your personality traits may contribute to addictive behaviors, consider getting matched with a licensed therapist online. Working with a licensed therapist can be a productive step toward navigating addiction and living a happy, healthy life.
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