An Overview Of Trauma Therapy For Families

Medically reviewed by Nikki Ciletti, M.Ed, LPC
Updated August 8, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

About half of U.S. adults may experience at least one traumatic event in their lives. 

In addition, approximately 25% of U.S. children may experience a traumatic event before the age of four

Trauma can have negative effects on both individuals and their loved ones. That’s why, whether a trauma survivor is an adult or a child, treatments involving the whole family may be an effective path to healing.

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Trauma can have lasting impacts on family members

What is trauma?

Living through a shocking, scary, or dangerous event can have lasting effects on your thoughts, feelings, and behavior. When these effects are strong enough to disrupt your daily life, this is usually referred to as “trauma.”

Trauma can look different for different people. Events that are traumatic for one person might not be traumatic for another. That said, a few common examples of potentially traumatic events include the following:

  • War 
  • Terrorist attacks
  • Life-threatening illnesses or injuries
  • Domestic violence
  • Sexual abuse
  • Natural disasters

Working closely with trauma survivors or witnessing other people’s traumatic experiences may also be traumatic, even if the event didn’t directly affect you. This form of trauma is sometimes called “vicarious trauma.”

Understanding the effects of trauma

Trauma can have lasting impacts on a person’s physical, mental, and emotional health. When you go through a traumatic event, your body may go into “fight-or-flight” mode. This response can involve symptoms like a racing heartbeat, rapid breathing, and anxiety. These symptoms tend to fade with time, but in some cases, they may linger. Some people who have experienced trauma continue to experience its effects for months or years following the event. Below, discover several common side effects of trauma.

Negative behaviors and feelings: Feelings of guilt, shame, and emotional distress can be common trauma symptoms. Some people may also feel angry or frustrated about their experiences. In some cases, these emotions may turn into aggressive behavior, conflicts with loved ones, or even violence. 

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Depression: Depression can be described as a state of long-lasting, intense sadness. People who are depressed may lose interest in their relationships and hobbies. They may also have low levels of energy and struggle to keep up with their routines. Other common symptoms may include weight fluctuations, sleep changes, and trouble concentrating. 

Substance use disorders: After a traumatic event, some people may self-medicate with alcohol or other substances. These substances may bring temporary relief from challenging thoughts and memories. That said, using substances to cope with trauma may raise the risk of addiction. 

Post-traumatic stress disorder: Post-traumatic stress disorder is also known as PTSD. This condition can involve reliving traumatic memories and avoiding reminders of trauma. People with PTSD may also show changes in their mood and thinking, struggle to sleep, or seem constantly “on edge.”

Complex PTSD: Complex PTSD is a form of PTSD. Complex PTSD tends to develop after repeated or ongoing exposure to trauma. Going through trauma at a young age may also make someone more likely to develop the condition. For this reason, complex PTSD can be common among children exposed to domestic violence or long-term abuse. 

Side effects like these can be challenging for individuals and their families. Following a traumatic event, it can be common for family members to feel overwhelmed or struggle to communicate. This may lead to strained relationships, changes in daily routines, and trouble managing household tasks.

What to know about trauma therapy for families

Families affected by a traumatic event may benefit from trauma-focused therapy. Trauma-focused therapy generally aims to help survivors understand their responses to trauma in a safe and supportive environment

Trauma therapy does not always involve families, but it can. Often, family trauma therapy helps family members better understand the effects of trauma on their relationships and develop coping strategies. 

Types of trauma-focused therapy that may be useful for families include the following:

These types of therapy may be useful for families affected by trauma. That said, specialized mental health treatments like these may not always be affordable. As a 2022 White House report pointed out, only half of U.S. adults with health insurance report having adequate mental health coverage

If you’re having trouble finding accessible care, online therapy might be helpful. Platforms like BetterHelp offer live sessions with a licensed therapist for individuals and couples, starting at $65 per week. 

Research shows that online therapy may benefit people living with the effects of trauma. In a 2023 study, 217 adults with PTSD received an internet-based mental health program for 12 weeks. Researchers found that the online treatment was effective, especially for individuals with symptoms of complex PTSD.  

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Trauma can have lasting impacts on family members

Takeaway

Traumatic experiences can be defined as dangerous, frightening, or life-threatening events that have lasting effects on well-being. These effects may include negative changes in behavior and emotions. Other side effects may include substance use, PTSD, depression, and more. Families affected by trauma may also face challenges with communication, routines, and relationships. Family trauma therapies may help adults and children process traumatic experiences and start the healing process. Examples of family trauma therapy include trauma systems therapy (TST), trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy (TF-CBT), and strengthening family coping resources (SFCR). Individuals and couples seeking convenient mental healthcare for coping with trauma may benefit from online therapy.
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