The Connection Between Wisdom And Aging

Medically reviewed by Nikki Ciletti, M.Ed, LPC
Updated July 18, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

The trope of the “wise elder” has appeared in a variety of popular media, referring to an older person who has developed wisdom and enlightenment through life experiences. You might wonder how much truth there is to this ideatrope. Does old age really correlate with wisdom, and if not, then how can one cultivate wisdom? Below, we’ll explore We will explore the answers to these questions and moreand some possible ways to develop wisdom regardless of age.  in this article. 

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What is wisdom and how is it defined?

Wisdom can be a challenging concept to define, particularly since it hasdespite having been explored in a wide variety of disciplines ranging from philosophy and religion to psychology and behavioral sciences. Moreover, there are different schools of thought that define wisdom in different ways. 

For the purposes of understanding wisdom’s relationship to aging, it may be helpful to refer to the Encyclopedia of Geropsychology,.This source defines wisdom as “a complex construct that combines cognitive components such as broad and deep knowledge, and noncognitive components such as emotion regulation competencies and openness to new ideas and experiences.”.

A variety of articles and studies have attempted to identify what, exactly, makes a person “wise.”. These discussions indicate a varietyrange of potential facets of wisdom, which may include:

  • The ability to learn from one’s experiences and mistakes
  • An openness to new points of view
  • An ongoing search for new knowledge and deeper meaning
  • A desire to pass one’s learnings down to future generations
  • The ability to practice self-reflection

Additionally, several different models have been proposed as tools for quantifying and understanding wisdom. One such framework is known as the “three-dimensional wisdom scale,”, which separates the trait of wisdom into three key aspects:

  • Cognitive, which typicallymay refers to the understanding and exploration of why things are the way they are
  • Reflective, which may refer to challenging one’s own beliefs, learning from one’s experiences, or viewing things from multiple perspectives
  • Affective, which may refer to one’s ability to practice compassion and empathy for others

Wisdom may be somewhat subjective, and definitions can vary from person to person. Still, this framework may provide useful context for understanding the research on wisdom, aging, and human development.  

What is the relationship between wisdom and aging?

Wisdom has long been studied in relation to life span development, well-being, and mental health. Given that life experiences have been cited as a potential source of knowledge and insight, a variety of studies have been conducted to determine whether there is indeed a connection between wisdom and old age. 

Some theories suggest that wisdom may not peak later in life. Indeed, certain studiessome research indicates that individuals may have higher markers of wisdom as middle-aged or younger adults. For example, a 2018 study using the three-dimensional wisdom scale found “an inverse U-curve” association between life course and wisdom, with wisdom tending to peak at midlife, rather than in old age.

However, other research has found a correlation between three-dimensional wisdom and well-being among older adults. For instance, a 2016 study found that “wisdom in old age can exert a  beneficial impact on physical, psychological, and subjective well-being”.

Taken together, these findings suggest that while older age may not be inherently connected to increased wisdom, having higher levels of wisdom later in life may have positive impacts on one’s physical well-being and mental health. 

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Cultivating wisdom for successful aging

Given that wisdom canmay be beneficial to one’s mental and physical health in older age, taking steps to cultivate wisdom earlier in life may have a positive impact on future outcomes. It may be important to remember that there is no “one-size-fits-all” method for developing wisdom, and what works for one person may not work for another. Still, a variety of strategies may be useful for those interested in cultivating and expanding wisdom at all life stages. These may include :The following are just a few:

Practicing mindfulness: Mindfulness—for example, mindfulness meditation—may be a useful strategy for developing wisdom through awareness of yourone’s thoughts, impulses, and emotions. By connecting to the present moment, it may be possible toyou may find that you gain insight into yourone’s mind and make more conscious decisions, which may potentially pavingpave the way to greater wisdom. 

Seeing mistakes as learning opportunities: The ability to learn from one’s mistakes has been cited as another potential feature of wisdom. It may be helpful to practice reflecting on mistakes with self-compassion while looking for lessons that can be passed on to others or applied to future situations. 

Seeking out diverse experiences and perspectives: A willingness to explore new experiences and points of view might may be considered another key component of wisdom. By considering different perspectives and activities—whether through talking to new people, taking classes, or trying out new hobbies—you may find that you it may be possible can broaden one’s your horizons and gain new knowledge and insight on a variety of subjects. 

For those interested in exploring new ways of looking at situations and challenges, therapy may also be a helpful resource. In therapy, you can discuss decisions, goals, or relationships with a licensed professional. Therapy may also be useful for navigating mental health challenges during different stages of life, including midlife and older age. 

Still if you feel hesitant to try traditional in-person therapy at this time, you may benefit from online therapy, discussions about wisdom and aging can be challenging to have, especially with a stranger. A clinical setting such as a therapist’s office could make talking about these sensitive topics even more intimidating, which numerous studies have shown to be effective. One study from 2017 found that internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy is effective for a variety of mental health conditions, including depression and anxiety. 

On the other hand, online therapeutic environments tend to put people at ease. It could also be more convenient since appointment slots are often available outside of normal business hours. Online therapy allows you to connect with a therapist from home or anywhere with an internet connection. You can communicate with your therapist in the way that’s most comfortable for you, whether by audio, video, live chat, or a combination of these methods. 

Online therapy has been determined a cost-efficient and effective alternative to traditional therapy. One 2017 study found that internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy is a useful form of treatment for mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety, for example.

Takeaway

Wisdom typically may encompasses a variety of individual traits, such as a desire to gain knowledge, an ability to reflect, an openness to new perspectives and experiences, and a willingness to learn from one’s mistakes. Certain studies have found that wisdom may peak in midlife, rather than in older age. However, research has also found a correlation between increased markers of wisdom later in life and increased physical and mental well-being, so it may be helpful to take action to cultivate wisdom now, regardless of age. Strategies for cultivating wisdom may include practicing mindfulness, seeking out new perspectives and experiences, and viewing mistakes as potential learning opportunities. 

If you are interested in exploring wisdom, mental health, or aging in more detail, it may help to connect with a licensed counselor through BetterHelpconnect with a licensed counselor through BetterHelp, which you can do in person or online. Take the first step toward exploring wisdom and aging in more depth and contact BetterHelp today. to start your online therapy journey.

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