What Is Worrying And Its Impact On Mental Health?
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Excessive worry: Signs and solutions
At some point in our lives, all of us likely worry about something—maybe about a fast-approaching deadline, an important test, a major meeting, an upcoming life change, or even a first date. Occasional worry is a natural part of the human experience, but when worry becomes excessive or difficult to control, it may be time to figure out how to manage it.
In this article, we will take a closer look at what worry is, signs that it may have become excessive, and how to manage excessive worry.
What is worrying and is it good for mental health?
So, what is worrying? As defined by the American Psychological Association, worry is “a state of mental distress or agitation due to concern about an impending or anticipated event, threat, or danger.” Worrying involves having feelings of unease and apprehension when looking toward something in the future.
What is worrying? Healthy vs. excessive
Worry can be thought of as existing on a continuum, ranging from moderate, “natural” worry to excessive worry. There can be healthy types of worry, worrying that is rational and rooted in real events and proportional to the situation. However, excessive worrying can sometimes involve worrying irrationally about situations that may not be likely to ever occur, worrying persistently, and/or worrying to a point that is disproportionate to the situation.
The fine line between healthy worries and anxiety
If you are worried about something like a test, a healthy amount of worry can be useful by driving you to implement solutions like studying every night and making sure you sleep and eat well before the test. However, in the case of excessive worry, you might freeze and not study, and possibly call out sick on the day of the test because you are too anxious to face it.
Impact of excessive worry on mental health and daily life
How to identify when you might need help for excessive worry
It can be difficult to know when to reach out for help for worry. Often, even when we worry about things without a basis in fact, the worry can seem very real to us. But there can be signs that everyday stress and worry have moved into the territory of potential anxiety disorders.
Signs and symptoms of anxiety disorders
Some of these signs and symptoms of anxiety disorders can include:
- Trouble focusing on tasks
- Difficulty sleeping or insomnia
- Sense of danger or impending doom
- Feeling nervous or tense
- Increased heart rate
- Persistent worry that is difficult to control
Generalized anxiety disorder and other anxiety types
If these symptoms are a part of your everyday life or begin to prevent you from participating in your normal routines, they may be signs of an anxiety disorder. There are several different types of anxiety disorders, including generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety, and specific phobias.
Factors contributing to generalized anxiety disorder and other anxiety disorders
The exact causes of anxiety disorders are not yet fully understood, but there are a range of factors that may increase a person’s risk of developing an anxiety disorder. These include a build-up of stress over time, trauma, having blood relatives with anxiety, drug or alcohol misuse, or other mental health conditions like depression.
Anxiety is very common: nearly 20% of U.S. adults experience an anxiety disorder annually.
How to manage excessive worry
If you are experiencing excessive worry or other symptoms of an anxiety disorder, know that help is available. There are a range of treatment options available that can help with anxiety. Anxiety disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, medication, or a combination of the two. Certain lifestyle changes may also help to reduce anxiety, in addition to these professional treatments.
Therapy
One common form of psychotherapy that has been shown to be effective for anxiety disorders is called cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). CBT typically involves identifying unhelpful thoughts and replacing them with more helpful thinking patterns, as well as identifying and changing behavioral patterns. In CBT, a therapist may help an individual learn better coping strategies and problem-solving skills to manage challenges. The therapist may also train their clients on relaxation techniques to help deal with stress in daily life. For example, if stress causes muscle tension for the client, they may show them progressive muscle relaxation techniques to implement when they are feeling anxious.
Online therapy for anxiety: A less intimidating option
For some people with an anxiety disorder, certain symptoms may make it feel difficult to seek therapy in person, as excessive worry can make the thought of commuting to an appointment, waiting in a busy office, or meeting with someone face-to-face feel very intimidating. With online therapy through BetterHelp, you can get matched with a licensed therapist and participate in therapy sessions right from the comfort of your own home, which may feel less intimidating for some people.
Online cognitive behavioral therapy for anxiety disorders
Plus, research shows that online cognitive behavioral therapy can be effective for a range of anxiety disorders. In fact, a recent review article examined the effectiveness of internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy (ICBT) in the treatment of psychiatric disorders, and it found that ICBT was effective in treating and managing disorders including generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety, panic disorder, and phobias.
Medication for anxiety and worries
In some cases, medication may be recommended as part of treatment for an anxiety disorder. There are several types of medications that may be used, such as certain anti-depressants, anti-anxiety medications, and beta-blockers. If you are wondering if medication might be right for you or what medication might be best, talk to your doctor about your options.
Lifestyle changes
In addition to professional treatment, there are a number of self-care strategies and lifestyle changes that may be helpful for coping with anxiety.
These may include:
- A meditation or mindfulness practice
- Creating a healthy sleep routine
- Balanced eating
- Regular physical activity
- Journaling
Your therapist may also work with you to help you to establish and maintain healthy lifestyle habits such as these.
Takeaway
What does it mean when someone is worrying?
When someone is worrying, it means they are feeling uneasy and concerned about something. Some level of worry can be a normal reaction to the stressors of daily living, such as family problems, relationship conflict, concerns over money and finances, work challenges, and more.
However, if you worry excessively or experience chronic worry that starts to interfere with your ability to function, it could be a sign of an anxiety disorder, such as generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety disorder (sometimes called social phobia), or panic disorder, which is characterized by frequent panic attacks.
What does very worrying mean?
If something is “very worrying” it means that it is troubling and causing great unease and concern. For instance, if someone has been experiencing a string of bad things in a day, they might describe that trend as “very worrying.”
How can I stop worrying?
It may not be possible to stop worrying from happening altogether, but to reduce feelings of worry, it can help to focus on the present moment, develop strong emotion regulation skills, and cultivate your relaxation response.
Why am I worrying so much?
There can be many different causes for worry, but if you are experiencing persistent, excessive worry, it could be due to an anxiety disorder. In some cases, experiencing traumatic events can also trigger anxiety or lead to other mental health concerns, such as post-traumatic stress disorder. While some amount of worry can be natural, if you are overly concerned or worried to the point that your relationships, job performance, or other parts of your life start to suffer, you may consider seeking support from a mental health professional.
What does the Bible say about worrying?
There are a number of passages about worrying in the Bible, below are a couple:
- “And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?” Matthew 6:27
- “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” Matthew 6:34
How do you calm a worrying mind?
To calm a worrying mind in the moment, it may help to practice deep breathing exercises, do a short meditation, or try a grounding exercise. Going to a calmer environment may also make a difference and help your racing brain relax more easily. However, for longer-term support with an anxiety disorder, seeking treatment through therapy and/or medication can be important.
Why should we stop worrying?
Experiencing some amount of temporary worry can be a natural and even healthy response in dangerous situations, but, if you are experiencing consistent and excessive worry, it can have a number of negative effects. In fact, research has shown that worry is linked to negative health effects including higher risk for coronary heart disease, heightened cortisol response, sleep problems, and more.
How can I control my fear and worry?
There are a range of strategies you can use to try to control fear and worry. To start, it may help to try practicing mindfulness—bringing your awareness to the present moment, and trying to recognize and release negative thoughts as they arise. You can also try using stress-reduction and relaxation techniques.
How to stop worrying about time?
Worrying about time passing and slipping away can be common—to try to combat this, it can be helpful to recognize that the passage of time is something out of our control. No matter how much we worry about it, time continues to march on. Instead, it may help to focus on what you can control, such as how you can best make use of the time you do have.
How does worrying affect the body?
When worry becomes excessive, such as in generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), it can bring a range of physical symptoms. As noted by the National Institute of Mental Health, individuals with GAD may experience symptoms such as pain, fatigue, or shortness of breath.
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