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Welcome to my profile page at BetterHelp! Most of the people I work with call me Marty. I'm looking forward to meeting you and working with you.
I am a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a masters degree in psychology and a doctorate in sexology. I have worked extensively in County Behavioral Health systems both as a therapist and a supervisor, and in private practice as well. I have also worked in a hospital setting at the Johns Hopkins Medical School and in grade schools, middle schools and high schools as well as institutional settings including jails and juvenile halls. It's been my privilege to work with children, adolescents, young people, adults and older adults as singles, couples,and polycules in traditional and intentional families. In all, I have more than 30 years experience with individual, family and group therapy and in supervising other licensed professionals and interns.
I have published extensively about working with sexual issues. I have a special interest in working with people who struggle with concerns related to polyamory, gender expression, less common sexual interests including BDSM/Kink, LGBTQIA concerns and disorders of sex development (DSD or intersex). I also have experience working with patients who have medically related mental health concerns, including post-surgical patients whose functioning is compromised and those with head trauma, brain injury or other debilitating accidents that impair or alter sexual function. Sometimes such arousal patterns and practices, or differences in physical development or functioning can give rise to difficulty in relationships including marriage/partnering, family dynamics, and parenting.
And, of course, it's common for sexual concerns to be a part of the work in therapy with trauma, abuse, anxiety and depression and obsessive or compulsive behaviors.
My approach to working with people in therapy is to meet them where they are, help them formulate goals, and marshal the tools to help them meet their objectives. There are many theoretical orientations and philosophies, techniques, and treatment aids every therapist learns about in school and masters on the job. The best ones are the ones that work for you. My job as a therapist is to offer you tools and support you on your journey.
Additional areas of focus:Stress, Anxiety, Grief, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Coping with life changes, ADHD, Abandonment, Attachment issues, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture, Body image, Caregiver issues and stress, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Divorce and separation, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Forgiveness, Gender dysphoria, Guilt and shame, HIV / AIDS, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Men's issues, Mood disorders, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Post-traumatic stress, Self-love, Sex addiction, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexual dysfunction, Sexuality, Somatization
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Harold Malin Jr. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Excellent listener, always helpful and puts things in perspective
Written on Oct 29, 2024 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Marty is very sincere, responsive and offers insightful analysis and assistance on how to deal with complex life issues. I value his time and and input tremendously and recommend him highly.
Written on Nov 29, 2023 after therapy with Harold for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, sleeping disorders, career difficulties, and adhd
Dr. Malin is a great listener and helps me see things from a different perspective. Oftentimes, I don't spend enough time thinking about my own needs and he helps me find healthy ways to support the people around me while reminding me that I matter, too. Thank you!
Written on Mar 03, 2021 after therapy with Harold for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, and anger management
Marty is warm, compassionate, and smart. He got me through a very difficult time in my life.
Written on Jan 25, 2021 after therapy with Harold for 2 years and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
I am so thankful to have him. We dont talk often but when we do i genuinely feel better
Written on Jan 19, 2021 after therapy with Harold for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and trauma and abuse
Thoughtful, attentive and vocal. Very helpful when avoidance is a challenge
Written on Dec 28, 2020 after therapy with Harold for 10 months on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, and adhd
Marty is great. He is an active participant in the conversation and in your recovery, and often is able to hear what you mean, when you're not being totally honest with yourself.
Written on Nov 20, 2020 after therapy with Harold for 1 year and 8 months
I really value my relationship w Dr.Malin. While I may go some time between sessions. I feel very understood each time. Very solid advisement.
Written on Aug 04, 2020 after therapy with Harold for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
I am very thankful for Dr. Malin Jr. and for everything he has helped me with. He is kind, patient, professional and resourceful. I would, without hesitation, refer a friend or colleague to him.
Written on Jul 29, 2020 after therapy with Harold for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Dr. Malin (Marty) is not only possessed of an impressive degree of expertise and experience, but is a thoughtful, compassionate listener who provides gentle, pragmatic feedback and helpful questions for further consideration. Moreover, he is a warm and thoroughly decent person. I would recommend him unreservedly.
Written on Jul 24, 2020 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, and lgbt
Very helpful and if you are a believer, he supports that belief.
Written on Apr 24, 2020 after therapy with Harold for 8 months on issues concerning anger management
Marty is professional and focused on hearing your needs. I do feel respected in the space with him.
Written on Nov 24, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 1 year and 2 months
Dr. Marty is fantastic. He immediately put me at ease - and I was very particular in selecting a therapist! He is genuine, calming and very sharp. I feel so fortunate to have found him!
Written on Aug 17, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
Dr. Malin has been very helpful and supportive. He asks questions that help me see different perspectives.
Written on Jul 18, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues
Dr. Malin "Marty" really helped me through a rough time. He's like the dad I've always wanted. He gives excellent and applicable advice, and offers unique insight I hadn't thought of. I was very grateful he did not just respond with "and how does that make you feel?" Ug! That's why I've never liked therapy...because of those stupid and lazy types of responses. Marty actually offers sound advice, while never coming across as preachy or judgmental. I really appreciated all he did for me and will definitely go to him again when I need him.
Written on Jun 15, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts, grief, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
He has listened so far, we’re still in the Q n A part of it but I have confidence he will help
Written on Jun 11, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks
Marty is the best counselor I ever had. He listens deeply, he is compassionate, absolutely non-judgmental. He asks multiple questions to understand my problem better. He also recommends very useful techniques to ease my anxiety for example. I can only recommend him!
Written on May 17, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and self esteem
Amazing! He understood me and started directing me in ways I never thought about previously. Always available and encouraging, what a great experience!
Written on Apr 24, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
Dr. Malin Jr. (aka Marty :) ) is a wonderful therapist. For the longest time I thought I would never be "okay" but it is because of him that I was finally able to learn how to love myself. He listened to my life story actively and was extremely patient and kind even when I struggle to piece it together. His guided questions are thought provoking and powerful allowing the therapy session to continue well after the video conversation has ended. I highly recommend Dr. Marty!
Written on Apr 12, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and anger management
Dr Malin is a great counselor. He really takes the time to understand the issues I bring to him, even if they are extremely ambiguous and complex. He does a great job in breaking them down and helping me find my own answers. I enjoy speaking with Dr. Malin a lot, and has been extremely helpful to my life.
Written on Feb 12, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
Dr. Malin is simply amazing. After having sessions with him for the past couple months, he makes me feel like my thoughts and feelings are valid. He has taught me some amazing tips and tricks to ease my anxiety when it come to relationships and just life in general. I am so glad to have been matched with Dr. Malin.
Written on Jan 20, 2019 after therapy with Harold for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
Dr. Malin has helped me nd my husband tremendously. He is kind, compassionate, and a caring listener. His suggestions have eased my mind and encouraged me. I highly reccomend him.
Written on Dec 26, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 2 months
Great man, clever methods.
Written on Nov 21, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
I've only been working with Dr. Malin for a few weeks, and it's been an incredibly rewarding experience so far. I speak to Marty once a week, usually for 60 minutes by phone, and he always gives me much to take away from that hour. I feel like he truly understands my needs and, more importantly, he makes sure that I always FEEL understood, which is so important to me. He provides me with insights that lets me understand myself better, as well as practical advice, which allows me to implement better changes in my life. In the last month that I've been working with Marty, there has already been prominent, positive changes in my life, and for that I am super grateful. My favorite part of our sessions are when he asks me questions to help me explore beyond just the surface of my problems. I'm naturally introspective, so I really appreciate Marty's counseling and communication style. He is skilled, knowledgeable, warm, and has a good sense of humor. I feel fortunate to be working with him.
Written on Oct 04, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Dr. Malin, Jr., is very responsive and asks pertinent questions to the situation at hand. He has helped me think through some issues and come to a better or at least clearer understanding of them and myself. He gives me feedback which helps me to focus my attention on "problems" at hand.
Written on Oct 02, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
Dr. Malin is very quick with helping to identify potential problems or things that need to be tackled within my general concerns. He is very thorough in his descriptions and tends to be very understanding and logical.
Written on Sep 25, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management
Marty understood very quickly what I am struggling with and actively think of ways to help me cope. He is patient when I have a lot of things to get off my chest. He also asks though provoking questions when I don't know what to say or when he wants me to explore some ideas I might not have thought of. He shows that he is interested in me as an individual. He doesn't show any signs of judgement; I feel safe and welcomed when I speak to him over messages and video calls. He is an intelligent and caring person. He's great at challenging my negative thoughts while making sure I'm emotionally supported.
Written on Sep 09, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
I've been in various forms of counseling over the years (mostly family matters) but it seems like for a variety of reasons this on-line counseling has opened up a basket of goodies that are being dealt with. I'm 60 so not a spring chicken and realize there's so much room to make a better future, but clearing out the cobwebs and making new connections in your brain is fundamental for that to happen.
Written on Aug 29, 2018 after therapy with Harold for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and family
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