What type of relationships last the longest?

There are many types of relationships out there but the ones that last the longest are the ones where both parties put the work and effort into maintaining a said relationship.  The truth is that relationships take a lot of work to maintain; whether it is a family relationship, intimate relationship, or friendship, the work put into it is what makes it last the longest.  The idea of “work” is a bit vague so here are some more specific ways in which you can have any relationship have the longevity you look for.

Firstly, it is about the quality of time spent together.  A relationship cannot last if two people are not making the effort to spend that quality time with one another.  How that quality time is spent may vary depending on the needs of both parties and the situation.  But either way, the effort put into having that time together helps to build a foundation for a long-lasting relationship.

Communication is key to a healthy relationship that is long-lasting.  Communication involves opening up and being vulnerable with one another about your true thoughts and feelings.  Communication is a two-way street.  If one person is being open and vulnerable but the other is not, then the stability in the relationship will be lacking, which will impact longevity as well.  Communication means being able to set boundaries; telling someone you love/care about what your needs are without reservation.  Although it may be uncomfortable to set these types of boundaries for some people; it is necessary for a long and healthy relationship.

Enduring hardships and adverse life events are certainly a means by which you can build a long-lasting relationship.  Going through hardship with another person and persevering together is a way to build trust in one another.  By the name in itself, hardship is not easy to have to face and can be stressful on the relationship.  But when you look at the bigger picture, going through that hardship helps you to feel closer and connected to that person and will likely be worth it in the long run.