Dr. Frederick Smoot, LMFT
About me
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (CA #12959) with over 15 years of experience counseling/ accompanying persons through difficult parts of their life-journeys. I have worked with a wide range of concerns including Isolation. loneliness, fearfulness, anxiety, intimacy/relationship issues, parenting and career challenges, addiction, physical and emotional abuse and life transitions.
My counseling style is warm, curious and appropriately truth-telling.. I treat others with respect and consistent presence. I work to sustain and shame-free context that empowers persons to (re)claim their lies and future with dignity.
I am an accompanist, using therapeutic tools gathered from several clinical approaches. I am relational, client centered, mindful, and strategic. I believe that direction and goals for therapy are shaped together with the client. We will tailor a treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
Your willingness to reach out for support shows your courage and desire for a better future. I encourage you to take this step, accompanied and supported
I look forward to working with you.
Professional experience
Additional areas of focus: Addictions, LGBT, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Eating disorders, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Abandonment, Aging and geriatric issues, Attachment issues, Blended family issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Communication problems, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Emptiness, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Midlife crisis, Multicultural concerns, Narcissism, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Self-harm, Sex addiction, Sexual dysfunction, Social anxiety and phobia, Workplace issues, Young adult issues
Clinical approaches: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy
License information
CA LMFT 12959
Reviews
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Dr. Frederick Smoot. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Dr Smoot is reliable and supportive and excels in his job. Over the last two years, I have had multiple complex mental health issues to deal with. His support has been invaluable as a psychologist, but also as a sparing partner for practical life situations. I highly recommend him.
Written on Jul 03, 2024 after therapy with Frederick for 2 years and 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, and coping with life changes
Dr. Smoot brings a wealth of experience and compassion to our conversations. I feel seen and heard and like I’m in a safe space to share.
Written on Mar 14, 2024 after therapy with Frederick for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
Dr Smoot is both a great listener but also has the capacity to draw from his extensive reading experience to offer a useful quote or insight- something not all therapists have. You can engage with him in depth and on questions of depth. But like all therapy - it is what you make of it. Be clear and bring up the topic - if his response resonates and you want to talk more then you’re into something. I’m clocking more when I steered the conversation towards a topic I thought was secondary but turned out to be primary.
Written on Feb 26, 2024 after therapy with Frederick for 1 month on issues concerning parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Dr. Smoot is a great listener and very intuitive.
Written on Feb 11, 2024 after therapy with Frederick for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
Awesome
Written on Mar 02, 2023 after therapy with Frederick for 2 years and 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
I have been with Dr. Fred for about 18 months and I cant say enough about this man. He is caring, asks great questions, pulls from his plethora of tools and experience and is very supportive. A great balance as well by taking tough subjects and breaking them down to digestible pieces. He is a wonderful Dr, and yes, you get a Doctor when you select Dr. Fred which again speaks to his experience and knowledge. I hope he doesnt retire soon! Mahalo Nui Loa Dr. Fred!
Written on Jan 24, 2023 after therapy with Frederick for 2 years and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, and coping with life changes