My full name is James Phillip Harmon but I generally use my middle name, Phillip or Phil; however, I am not too fussy about this. I live in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia and have worked in both in-patient and outpatient settings as a Licensed Professional Counselor for just over 30 years. These settings have allowed me to work with people who are experiencing stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse and addiction issues, pretty much general practice.
My initial counseling education was in Adlerian Psychology. This foundation has been strengthened and expanded with later training in Marsha Linehan's Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Alfred Adler was a social psychiatrist who taught that all human behavior has a purpose that makes sense to the individual. He taught that we develop a personal understanding and beliefs about life that we use in our efforts to address the challenges of finding where we belong in society, finding how we can best contribute to society and in establishing and maintaining relationships. Adlerians believe that we all have what are called "mistaken beliefs" things that are true because we believe them but are only true to us, not in the more general context of society as a whole. A more contemporary approach, that in my opinion builds upon some of what Adler taught, is Marsha Linehan's Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). This approach sees the individual as being the expert on and about themselves. Again, we have mistaken beliefs that are our truths and the issue becomes adjusting these beliefs, if we choose to do so, to help us respond in a more effective manner to the challenges life presents. Therapy is something that happens between two equal partners, not a technique that is imposed. The therapist and client may have very different beliefs and opinions about what is happeneing. Both are correct; they simply disagree. The best solution to a problem is the one that is most effective for helping the client build the life they want to have.
I believe that you have the ability, the strength and the courage to identify and make needful changes that can help you have a more satisfying life. It can a bit of work but is well worth the effort. A large part of the therapist's job is to ask questions, make comments and suggestions, maybe challenge a bit to help the client find their answers.
Additional areas of focus: Divorce and separation, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Impulsivity, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Mood disorders, Narcissism, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Post-traumatic stress, Social anxiety and phobia
VA LPC 0701001987
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I have recommended better help to a bunch of people because of Phil. Seriously I wasn't blowing smoke. This guy is a phenomenal counselor. Life changing stuff, you guys got a good one here.
Written on Nov 09, 2024 after therapy with James for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, eating disorders, and parenting issues
He is very execellent!
Written on Nov 05, 2024 after therapy with James for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
James is insightful and an extremely good listener. I would highly recommend him to anyone.
Written on Oct 01, 2024 after therapy with James for 8 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and grief
A solid therapist. I value the time that I spend with him.
Written on Sep 23, 2024 after therapy with James for 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and coaching
Exactly the therapist I was looking for! Very well educated and experienced. Very happy with our work and the help I’ve received!
Written on Sep 22, 2024 after therapy with James for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
James is a kind and understanding person. He asks a lot of questions but only in a way to ensure he is understanding your feelings and thoughts. I can also tell that he is very professional because he talks frequently about the "why's" of certain thoughts and feelings. Thank you James.
Written on Jul 31, 2024 after therapy with James for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and trauma and abuse