Work with Dr. Lori Whatley (LMFT, PsyD) - BetterHelp Online Therapist

Dr. Whatley was crucial to my recovery for so many years! She helped me understand my sexual addiction and also take practical steps to begin and continue in my recovery. She always had so much positive energy that no matter what was happening, my meetings with her were a big part of keeping on track and continuing recovery.

Written on May 10, 2022 after therapy with Lori for 4 years and 4 months

Lori is an excellent therapist. I highly recommend her. She helped me so much in a much shorter period of time than traditional talk therapy. Betterhelp and their therapist offer many different approaches to therapy other than just talking. There is writing, meeting face to face, worksheets, homework, book recommendations. Highly recommend Lori and Betterhelp.

Written on Jul 30, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and eating disorders

My time with Dr Lori has been literally life-changing. When I first started working with her, I was confused, depressed, going through so much turmoil in my life and I was drowning. Slowly, with her wise counsel and guidance, I've been able to regain clarity, find my own strength, gain confidence to make important decisions, and cope with the challenges I've faced. She has been firm but fair and kind, and I really appreciate working with her. I've even recommended her to family and friends.

Written on Jul 27, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 2 years and 11 months on issues concerning relationship issues

Dr Whatley's compassion, wisdom and expertise have been truly transformative to have in my life. While I came to her looking to be told what to do, and how to be to feel better. She has, and is, gradually helping steer me towards finding those answers within myself, and a greater gift I could not ask for.

Written on Jun 22, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and trauma and abuse

Love her!! So knowledgeable and informed!
Always quick
To respond and so
Nice and helpful!!!!

Written on May 12, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 3 years and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and bipolar disorder

She's amazing. Really wants to give you her best and has a lot of experience

Written on May 11, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 1 year and 8 months on issues concerning trauma and abuse, and coaching

I really appreciate Dr. Lori's help. Always pleasant and helpful.

Written on Mar 15, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 1 year and 5 months

Lori listens and helps me in that she provides me with tools and resources to work through past traumas. She is amazing!

Written on Feb 24, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 2 years and 11 months

Very responsive, supportive

Written on Jan 28, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, and intimacy-related issues

Dr. Whatley is very supportive and understanding. She listens carefully and provides advice that best suits. It is early stage for me so far but I definitely feel better already.

Written on Jan 25, 2021 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Dr. Whatley has been my therapist for a year now and I have made so much progress with her. She's amazing! I highly recommend her. She's helped me work through forgiveness when it comes to some of my past traumas.

Written on Sep 09, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching

Dr. Whatley has been great. She listens and supports me in a gentle, affirming way.

Written on Sep 08, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 10 months on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and coaching

Dr. Whatley has a lot of experience and you can feel that when you talk to her. It is nice to know that you are not alone, with both her company and the understanding that other patients go through struggles too. I am grateful for her support and guidance to helpful resources on my journey.

Written on Jul 27, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

Dr Whatley, has been extremely patient and respectful through out the entire time. I can't thank her enough for guiding me to realizing and learning a lot that enable to make better decisions.

Written on Jun 20, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 10 months on issues concerning relationship issues, coaching, and compassion fatigue

Dr Whatley really has helped me during this time and I can tell a HUGE difference. She connects with me everyday which is new to me in text therapy, but I ABSOLUTELY love it! I can open up to her and not feel judged. She is very helpful and understanding! Im so glad I found this app because going out to a traditional face to face therapy isn't ideal now. This app was awesome at connecting me to a therapist that is perfect for me!

Written on Jun 15, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 2 months

Dr. Whatley has helped me stay grounded, kind and fresh through really trying times. She coaches me in defining the right priorities in both my personal and my professional life and helps me learn new things about myself and those around me. Always looking forward to our sessions!

Written on Jun 12, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd

Dr Lori is professional and supportive. She coaches me and makes our sessions meaningful. I like her communication style both written and verbal and her voice is calming and soothing.
We are making great progress already and I value Dr Lori's expertise in all fields related to my therapy.

Written on Jun 12, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management

Lori is a great therapist. I've found that the more she gets to know me the more she's able to pin point the areas I struggle with and how to find a way out. I always feel better after I talk to her because she makes me feel safe with her. She's above the problem and in that way helps me to see that it's not such a big deal. My life has become a lot better since talking to her regularly.

Written on May 27, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 4 months

Dr. Whatley has helped me through one of the most toughest times in my life. Under her counsel, I was able to understand myself and it really set me up for feeling better and finding out that what I wanted from life was achievable. She made it so easy to ask for help and my experience with her as been absolutely amazing. I loved her attention towards finding out what were the underlying emotions behind my thoughts and providing me with strategies on how to address them.

Written on May 04, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 2 years and 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, and sleeping disorders

She is the best and we are moving so fast

Written on Mar 23, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, anger management, coping with life changes, and coaching

I feel grateful to have found a mental health professional of Dr. Lori's caliber providing their services online. I never hoped to be paired with someone as experienced and well-qualified as she is.

Written on Jan 28, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes

Dr. Whatley is super knowledgeable and a great listener. I'm so grateful to be working with her!

Written on Jan 28, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and coping with life changes

Having had weekly sessions with Dr Whatley now for about 1 year, I can truly say that I'm so thankful to have come across a therapist like her, and I've been pleasantly surprised by the outstanding quality of our sessions and the ongoing support that I've received. Dr Whatley is impressive. She has that rare balance of deep relevant knowledge, meaningful life and career experience, strength of character, warmth of personality, gentle yet effective communication, and unrivaled passion and commitment to see her clients thrive. I truly believe her support had been a divine appointment and would strongly recommend her without a moment's hesitation to anyone needing therapy.

Written on Jan 24, 2020 after therapy with Lori for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, anger management, and adhd

Dr. Whatley has been extremely intensive and responsive.. zero judgment and such a great spans of knowledge with my background. I’m so happy to have found her.

Written on Oct 18, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and adhd

Amazing! She is able to consolidate all my range of emotions very easily and always answers my questions and gives me emotional support when I need it. Has really helped me the last few months!

Written on Sep 25, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue

Dr. Whatley is wonderful. She is knowledgeable. She listens. She calls me out when I need to be (and she knows I can handle it). She is the best thing that has happened to me in my health journey. Thank you, thank you.

Written on Sep 11, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 7 months

Laura was an incredibly insightful and considerate counsellor that helped me through a challenging time.

Written on Aug 29, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and bipolar disorder

Dr. Whatley is so lovely and so down to earth. She made me feel at ease right away. She also gave me great advice and pointed out one of my patterns in such a positive way all in just the first session. She's awesome!

Written on Aug 14, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem

Dr. Lori is amazing! She is quite friendly and understanding and always does her best to provide solutions that I find possible to do. I'm becoming better and better every day. I'm sure it will be an incredible journey!

Written on Aug 09, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching

She’s very patient and open-minded to understand someone in my lifestyle and background. I’ve enjoyed our sessions so far.

Written on Jun 24, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

I am happy I have her!

Written on May 28, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem

I have only been working with Dr.Whatley for two weeks but it has been great so far! She’s very knowledgable in the areas where I need help and has recommended great resources to help me educate myself and develop tools. The modality of having brief messaging daily has actually really helped streamline the therapeutic journey for me! Dr. Whatley always has worksheets and thoughtful questions to help further open up discussions and examine root causes and remedies. She’s a wonderful therapist and would highly recommended her to anyone need to work through similar issues.

Written on May 28, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and eating disorders

Dr. Whatley is an incredible person and very knowledgable. She is kind and has patience, as well as understands my situation. Dr. Whatley also makes me feel as though I am her only client and that makes me feel as though I matter.

Written on May 21, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 4 months

I liked Dr. Whatley from the beginning. In the very first session she listened to me and understood me.

But, most of all, she showed plenty of knowledge concerning my problem. Later, during my sessions, she suggested me many books, all of them were very important to me.

She also make me believe in myself and made me believe that my problem had a solution.

I am very grateful to Dr. Whatley. I will be thankful to her for ever.

Written on May 21, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 11 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem

I have only been working with Dr. Whatley for a few short weeks but I can already feel a huge improvement in my mental health! She does an excellent job of listening and providing me with tools and advice to help me deal with my anxiety. I am already feeling so much calmer and I am able to enjoy life with a clearer mind!

Written on May 10, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, eating disorders, and self esteem

Dr. Whatley is really friendly and helpful for a proactive mind like mine. She always supplies helpful worksheets and suggests books that may be helpful. I love that I have things to think about before our next session and she’s always prepared and great at guiding me to crake conclusions.

Written on May 03, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, and coaching

She has been amazing in helping me deal with narcissistic abuse. She helped me understand the abuse and we are working towards coming out of it.

Written on Mar 24, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and self esteem

Dr. Whatley always responds quickly to me. The responses are always just what I need to hear to help me through particular situations. She seems to know how I feel without me having to overly express it. She is very professional and caring.

Written on Mar 03, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse

Lori is comforting, She is very knowledgable and answers in a timely manner. She is great to talk to on the phone.

Written on Feb 14, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Dr. Whatley has provided me with the opportunity to understand myself more than anyone else has. She truly cares and is straight forward when she needs to be; a quality I greatly appreciate. She has a good sense of what I need in any given moment during our counseling sessions and provides helpful tools. I have experienced so much growth since I began my work with her and I will forever be grateful.

Written on Jan 20, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, eating disorders, and self esteem

I have been interacting with Dr. Whatley now for 5 months and I would say that she is an excellent therapist. She is patient and gentle, but will push on you when she needs to. Her advice is consistent, and she is up to date with all the latest work. She is fun to talk to, but she never forgets your goals and how to get you to them. She has undoubtedly made my life better in the long term.

Written on Jan 16, 2019 after therapy with Lori for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, and self esteem

Dr Whatley is equipped to offer fast, timely and effective therapy. I was astonished at her timely responses and her supportive and thoughtful technique.

Written on Dec 28, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Dr. Whatley takes the time to get to know me and responds in a genuine manner. Her support has meant the world to me and I’m looking forward to working with her more in the future.

Written on Dec 20, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

I just adore her. She's so compassionate and I feel like she truly wants to help me. I have seen counselors face-to-face in their office and my experiences have been that they were kind of cold and they did not initiate conversation with me. Sometimes it's hard for me to open up and Dr. Whatley is very good about asking me questions that make me stop and think and then it turns into a full conversation. She's wonderful

Written on Dec 06, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 11 months

I've been talking with Dr. Whatley for about a month now. I'm really happy and greatful for her help.

Written on Oct 22, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, and self esteem

Ive been working with Dr. Whatley for over a month now and I'm already seeing results in myself. I've faced some fears and taken my anxiety head on. She really listens and offers excellent advice. I'm glad I got paired with her. I'm really hopeful now for the first time in a long time.

Written on Oct 08, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem

Dr, Whatley has been extremely helpful in helping me through a difficult time. She’s supportive and good at asking me questions that really make me think.

Written on Sep 07, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 6 months on issues concerning relationship, family, and self esteem

Dr. Whatley really helped me with her practical approach to things. The worksheets and discussions on them were exactly what I was looking for to help me visualize my goals and achievements. She is a great listener and gives her input. Overall, one of the best therapists I had!

Written on Aug 15, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related, parenting, self esteem, anger, and career

There have been various instances when i’ve had a chance to connect with a doctor regarding my problems. However, I have never connected with anyone as well as I did with Dr. Whatley. She definitely makes you feel comfortable and understands what you are going through.

Written on Jul 26, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family, sleeping, and self esteem

At first i thought it was odd how she didn't say much, but as the days went by I realized she's there to listen and that one day it will just click and get better in time..But since talking to her I do feel better in myself and I do contact her whenever I want to.

Written on Jul 16, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and eating

Dr. Whatley is fantastic and has helped calm me in many situations.

Written on Jun 27, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship

Dr. Whatley is a kind and supportive person who takes the time to listen and understand what is really bothering you. With that she is able to help you move forward, always supporting you along the way.

Written on May 27, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship, and self esteem

D.r Whatley was extremely helpful. Her method of asking questions allowed me time to be introspective and really work through my problems. Every time I got a message from her it was immensely reassuring and helpful. I would highly recommend her!

Written on May 19, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship, and intimacy-related

I love her. She seems to be right there in it with me. She is very good and I would recommend her to all my friends family, and enemies as well. Keep up the good work.

Written on May 13, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Dr. Lori was able to swiftly identify key issues and problem-solving in a respectful yet efficient manner. I highly respect her expertise, and kindness.

Written on Apr 30, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

She has been so amazing. I’ve been dealing with some nasty people in my life and she has helped me realize that I don’t need these people. She is so sweet and caring and I’m so glad I was matched with her!

Written on Apr 13, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship, family, eating, sleeping, self esteem, and career

Quite simply Lori is amazing and I am so grateful for her support and deep empathy and compassion

Written on Apr 04, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related, and self esteem

Dr. Whatley is a skilled understanding therapist who uses an open and friendly style of communication to help Me to better understand myself and my issues. She is supportive and consistent, and responds quickly each time.

Written on Apr 04, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship, family, and self esteem

Dr. Whatley took her time listening to me and asked me questions that gave me new insight into situations. Sometimes it is difficult to see things objectively when emotions are involved and she would ask me for further information surrounding events and feelings. It made me more calm in my approach and helped me have more meaningful conversations with my husband. She is great to work with.

Written on Mar 26, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

She's very friendly and supportive.

Written on Mar 12, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 months

I have found in Lori someone who is incredibly empathetic, knowledgeable and spirit-led. She's helped me face some tough areas in my life and encouraged me to take the steps to recovery I needed to take. I very highly recommend her!!!

Written on Mar 02, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 1 month

Lori has been instrumental in my personal success for the better part of the last year. As someone who struggles with anxiety and depression, having someone to talk to and work on different things is extremely important to me. Lori is a great listener, but will also push you to try new methods out of your comfort zone to handle anxiety and depression, which as been invaluable to me.

Written on Feb 24, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 6 months on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety

I started out on BetterHelp looking to improve a few areas of my life to then improve my overall happiness. I've had some significant changes in my life recently and have found Lori to be someone I can vent to, share my feelings with and receive understanding from. I never feel judged.
This has all been great but the best thing I've gotten out of my time with her is being productive about the things I'm unhappy with. Instead of just talking about it and feeling sorry for myself, we are actively planning solutions to fix issues. Actively brainstorming and taking steps to create the life I want for myself and to enjoy focusing on, and being me. To me, this has been one of the best things I've done and I highly recommend Lori.

Written on Feb 22, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and career

Lori is an insightful counselor.

Written on Feb 15, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Lori is a such an awesome counselor and a wonderful blessing. She has entered at such a difficult time in my life and has been able to provide the guidance, comfort, patience and listening ear I've really needed. She applies both spiritual and secular knowledge in a very practical and tangible way. I never feel judged or ashamed of my feelings. I truly feel like with her that I'm not alone in my journey but I'm also given the tools to be self sufficient. I truly appreciate my time with her.

Written on Feb 01, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 4 weeks

Lori was lovely and available. She would respond to me very quickly and made me feel hugged and heard. Thank you.

Written on Feb 01, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 4 weeks

Lori Whatley knows what she's doing. She listens to my concerns and helps me put things into perspective. She responds frequently whilst also offering video and phone call sessions. I feel like she is passionate about what she does and I would highly recommend her.

Written on Jan 30, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and trauma and abuse

She’s awesome. Gives me time to respond. She listens to me and responds with positive comments. She’s not the type to baby you and that’s what I like the most. She’s empathetic but doesn't dwell on it. She's very focused on the present and future. Helps with the past but moves at the pace that she thinks you can go. Lori is very very helpful in so many different areas.

Written on Jan 05, 2018 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping, and bipolar

I have only had one session with Lori, but it was a good session and she was able to get to the core issues quickly.

Written on Dec 30, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Lori is a wonderful, kind and caring person with a gentle Christ-like heart. She checks in regularly and asks though-provoking questions. There is absolutely no judgement from her - in fact quite the opposite. I feel completely loved and accepted just as I am with Lori. She is a treasure.

Written on Nov 28, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 4 weeks

Lori has been very compassionate and professional. She is responsive to my comments and questions. She also gives me space when I’m in a more “quiet mode”, although she will continue to send me messages to remind me she is there.

Written on Nov 15, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship, and intimacy-related

Very happy with Lori. Very encouraging and good ideas that help me think things through.

Written on Oct 18, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Confiding in Lori has been exactly what my soul needed. Just confessing sin and working through areas of frustration has helped me to think more clearly about why I do things and how to remove certain behaviors from my life. She is caring and receptive.

Written on Oct 09, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks

Lori was persistent and kept me feeling supported. Her words are insightful and helpful to allow me to reflect and refocus on what I want in my life. Highly recommend.

Written on Aug 12, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship

Lori is great! I feel really comfortable and could honestly speak about anything no matter how absurd, deep or complex. She is sympathetic, sensitive, non judgmental and really helpful in a practical way that gets results. This promotes change quickly.
She offers great insight and is heartfelt but offers you tools to implement into your life with ease, is continually there to support you through those changes and offer encouragement.
I have been able to implement her advice quickly and with the guidance and support needed to make a better life. I highly recommend Lori.

Written on Jun 06, 2017 after therapy with Lori for 3 weeks

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