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I am an autistic therapist, which is important to mention as my communication style may differ from what you are accustomed to. I am very direct and honest, and my guidance is grounded in research and the lived experiences of other clients. My therapeutic approach is centered on helping you define your current purpose. I employ a client-centered approach, cognitive behavioral techniques, and existentialism to ensure you feel heard, seen, and valued. Together, we will embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. I am pleased that you are here, and I look forward to working with you.
I began my education in research psychology before entering counseling. Now, I am a Community Counselor. I have spent my time as a therapist side by side with people in their homes, in their schools, at their workplace, and out in the community. I have worked with people on the Autism Spectrum, with ADHD, depression, mood disorders, and end of life issues.
My approach to helping has always been to help you define your current purpose. I utilize a client-centered approach, cognitive behavioralism, and existentialism. I want you to feel heard, seen, and feel that you are important. We will work together to help you on a journey to discover yourself.
I am glad you are here and I look forward to working with you.
Additional areas of focus:Stress, Anxiety, Relationship issues, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Parenting issues, Career difficulties, Depression, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture, Blended family issues, Body image, Cancer, Eating and food-related issues, Emptiness, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Life purpose, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Self-love, Sexuality
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Matthew Miller. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Matthew has helped me immensely. Since I’ve been counseling with him, my confidence has improved, I have new hobbies, my CPTSD has cleared up, and I am much better at setting boundaries. I highly recommend anyone who is struggling or going through hard times to see him. He is blunt and straightforward, often cutting right to the heart of the matter. He is very good at spotting behavior patterns very quickly. If you prefer a therapist who will coddle you, approach you with softness, and tell you what you want to hear, then Matthew is not right for you. I say that as a compliment to him. My life has improved markedly since starting therapy with him. Highly recommend.
Written on Aug 14, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year on issues concerning depression, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Matthew is a different type of therapist than I have encountered before. He is direct but kind and very clear in the way he gives advice and helps me reflect on my self. Working with Matthew has expanded my conception of what I am capable of. He helped me navigate coming out to my wife as poly and integrate my new partner into our lives. He helped save my marriage. I'm the happiest I've been in a long time and I credit that to Matthew. I owe him a huge debt of gratitude.
Written on Jul 26, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues
Matthew listens to everything I have to say and helps me understand my feelings and thoughts. He helps me work through what I need to work through and simplifies things that I unconsciously complicate. He has helped me understand myself in ways I would never have done without him. I highly recommend him to anyone that is on a journey of self discovery
Written on Jul 14, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues
Matthew is an insightful therapist and cares about his patients. He remembers all the information from previous sessions and provides practical feedback and next steps!
Written on Jul 10, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, self esteem, and coaching
I have worked with Matthew through Better Help for over a year and it has been the best therapy experience I've had. I am autistic and had previously worked with therapists who didn't fully understand my perspective or needs. Having a therapist who is also autistic has been instrumental in helping me find a way to exist in the world that is joyful and sustainable. Our conversations are direct, focused on my concerns, and often fun. I would recommend Matthew to anyone looking to build a values-focused life with the support of a therapist who will push you to grow while also letting you shape your experience.
Written on Jun 28, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, coping with life changes, and adhd
I appreciate Matthew a lot. He’s direct, respectful, and gives incredible insight.
Written on Jun 09, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Matthew has helped me realize a lot of truths that have set me on a positive life path and influenced me for the better! Highly recommend. He’s very insightful and understanding!
Written on May 25, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 6 months on issues concerning lgbt, and adhd
Matthew is amazing! Understanding and patient, but also direct when needed. He provides great information and resources.
Written on May 17, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, and adhd
Matthew takes the time to understand and acknowledge my feelings. By encouraging me to break away from my negativity, I have been able to think clearer and focus on improving. I've been able to receive the help I need because I'm able to openly express my thoughts.
Written on May 03, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Easy to talk to. Listens and offer guidance.
Written on Apr 13, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, and career difficulties
Matthew is a great listener and frames things very well. Great insight and knowledge. Listens and respons and provides thoughts and strategies to think moving forward. I highly recommend him. He's helped my thinking so much.
Written on Feb 04, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Matthew has really taught me a lot this past year and a half. I always look forward to our sessions weekly. He has really taught me to stop making stories up in my head before anything actually happens. Still a work in progress but he pushes me to continue to do that. He is blunt and honest and will tell me exactly what I need to hear without sugar coating anything. That right there is what makes him a very good therapist! I have been with many and he is the first one to tell me like it is and he is always right. He does a great job knowing what will happen before it even happens, especially when I think he is wrong. haha. Having to admit that I was wrong is a lot harder than just doing it right in the first place. I appreciate Matthew and everything that he has helped me with. I wouldn't be where I am today had I not reached out for help when I needed it. Thank you, Matthew, for hanging in there with me. I know it has been quite the adventure!!
Written on Jan 09, 2024 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning adhd
I've just recently began working with Matthew and from the first session he changed my way of thinking and my attitude towards problems its early days but makes me feel very comfortable and helpful to getting me on the right track
Written on Sep 19, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, and coping with life changes
Matthew is so attentive and caring. I just started working with him a little over a week ago and I can already see improvements in myself. I would 10/10 recommend working with Matthew if possible.
Written on Aug 08, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I have been seeing Matt for over 2 years now. At the start I was an emotional mess, all over the place and unstable in myself and my self-worth.
Now I’ve built self-confidence, am clear on my values, and the values I will accept from others. Matt has helped me recognise toxic traits, and although I can’t remove the people who exhibit these traits from my life for various reasons- he helps me navigate the complexities of these relationships.
On a personal note; My lifestyle is not the norm- I identify as polyamorus (multiple partners, with not all relationships of a sexual nature) - which Matt is able to comprehend, and provide appropriate support without resorting to “text book answers” or judging me for my lifestyle choices and relationship structure.
Written on Jul 06, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 2 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
Matthew Miller has been such an amazing therapist. He truly helped me beyond my expectations of what I initially started therapy for. He is direct and always knows the right thing to say and was able to keep me asking myself the right questions and remembering my intentions.
Written on Jun 28, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 2 months on issues concerning lgbt, relationship issues, grief, and self esteem
Matthew’s approach entails both a sensible worldview and practical, “actionable” behaviors for personal development. He is a no-nonsense person coupled with compassionate concern and I absolutely appreciate such authenticity. I am grateful to have him in my corner and look forward to our sessions.
Written on Jun 22, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and anger management
Matthew is so great he listens challenges my negative thoughts and makes me feel human he has helped realize my parents are no who I thought they were I am starting to look forward to being alive and see reasons to keep going he has helped me realize I'm alive and am capable of making my own decisions
Written on Jun 17, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coaching, and adhd
Really great listener and observer. Understanding and straight to the point. Had nothing but a great experience with Matthew
Written on May 25, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
He’s awesome!
Written on May 03, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Matthew has helped me tremendously. I was looking for a therapist with whom I could be myself, and feel comfortable sharing anything. What I also appreciated about Matthew's approach was that it felt authentic, and not overly sugar-coated. I could ask his opinion and he would give it to me, as is. He challenged me in many ways and helped me go through some important changes in my life and feel a lot more confident. I hope to keep connecting with Matthew in the future. He has been my best experience with therapy so far. I highly recommend his services. Thank you, Matthew!
Written on Apr 10, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 3 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, eating disorders, anger management, coaching, and adhd
Matthew helped me turn my life around through identifying and dissecting all the roots of my issues. From someone who has had no prior experience before BetterHelp, my mind is forever set that everyone should see a therapist at least once in their lifetime, and I credit Matthew for that. Thank you for everything.
Written on Mar 16, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, grief, eating disorders, and compassion fatigue
Fantastic therapist, on another level!
Written on Jan 05, 2023 after therapy with Matthew for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues
excellent therapist
Written on Dec 19, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, and self esteem
I am relatively new to therapy, and was pretty unsure about the whole thing. Matthew made me feel comfortable, heard, and had some very helpful insights. 10/10
Written on Nov 30, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, coping with life changes, and adhd
Loved talking to Matthew :)
Written on Nov 26, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Matthew has already made me feel a little stronger.
Written on Nov 09, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
I am knee to therapy and talking to people about my problem. But I'm glad Matthew is my first. He is very relatable and very understanding my dilemmas.
Anyone would be lucky to have him.
Written on Nov 07, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and intimacy-related issues
Matthew is very easy to connect to and challenges my perspectives in a thought-provoking manner. I look forward to talking to him on a weekly basis.
Written on Oct 12, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning lgbt
Matt is excellent , he is the best therapist I have ever had.
Written on Sep 19, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning anger management
10/10
Written on Sep 10, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and compassion fatigue
Helpful, funny, and a great therapist! Helps put issues into perspective, and help for moving through obstacles.
Written on Sep 03, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 1 month
An amazing therapist, very easy to talk to very understanding. Unfortunately due to my schedule we couldn’t have that many sessions but the sessions we did have were extremely helpful
Written on Aug 26, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compa
He has not lived my experience; would prefer to talk with someone who has, but he's sensitive to me, asks thoughtful questions. He' s doing well foe me.
Written on Aug 10, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 10 months on issues concerning lgbt, relationship issues, and family conflicts
Matt cuts through the tangled mess I made of my own psyche and gets to the heart of the matter every single time. He does this easily and with a good sense of humour.
Written on Aug 08, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and career difficulties
i can’t quantify the amount of appreciation i have to the universe for bringing this therapist and process into my life, especially at this time. i’ve had a few therapists in my life from when i was younger to now 36 and i’ve never felt more seen, and my experiences more protected. im not only given sound; thoughtful advice through the biggest life changing event of my life but by above and beyond imo step by step guidance and empowerment to step into the role of doing that all on my own when i’m not speaking one on one with them. I’m very grateful matthew chose this path in life and all the people that will benefit from it as i have.
Written on Jun 07, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 4 months on issues concerning lgbt
He helps me in ways I had never imagined!
Written on Jun 06, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 1 year and 2 months
Very kind and caring and straightforward
Written on Jun 02, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and bipolar disorder
He’s really helped me with
Written on May 15, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and adhd
Perfect fit for me
Written on May 02, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Matthew has been very helpful with this heartbreaking journey.
Written on Apr 19, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
He gave me the confidence to make steps towards growth :) I'll never forget the support he's offered me these past few months. He's a wonderful therapist that I can't recommend enough
Written on Apr 17, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
Matt is great! He's helped me see things from new perspectives which truly helps me approach my relationships in a more effective manner. I really enjoy working with him.
Written on Mar 17, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning anger management
can’t think of a review right now but its is amazing, working with matthew (:
Written on Mar 10, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, bipolar disorder, compassion fatigue, and adhd
I am a newer client but I'm excited to be working with Matthew! I was blown away at how specific his background and education was to what I was hoping for in a therapist. I'm so happy I found betterhelp, I really feel like this will be pivotal for me!! Thank you to everyone involved, especially Matthew!!!
Written on Feb 24, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
He does a really great job at making you feel comfortable.
Written on Feb 14, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
Great guy and great advice!
Written on Jan 23, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
Great Experience!
Written on Jan 03, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, anger management, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
If you're lucky enough to have him as a therapist - Matthew is capable of understanding people on a deep level even from the first session.
My experience with the sessions were enlightning and he made me feel comfortable speaking about my concerns even if I have anxiety and even if the topic in discussion might have been heavy. He uses talking strategies which make you aware of your train of thoughts, which are extremely helpful to fully understand yourself and what's going on around you.
I'd like to take this opportunity to say thank you again Matthew for all your help. You helped me to identify and prioritise what is (really) worthwhile
Written on Nov 02, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and adhd
He really helps ease my mind about my problems. He makes me laugh and I always feel good after our sessions.
Written on Oct 26, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks
Matthew has been a phenomenal resource who creates an open and welcoming atmosphere. By far the best therapist I’ve worked with.
Written on Oct 11, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, and self esteem
Matching with Matthew felt like a miracle. I spent 8 years struggling to find a good therapist. He listens and encourages me to talk, I always struggled with therapy because I don’t know what to say but his energy makes him so easy to talk to. He has a way of identifying my anxieties before I can even identify them myself and provides me with real and effective coping skills for my anxiety and intrusive thoughts. Before Matthew I would go months without talking to my therapist but I find myself wanting to schedule with him every other week and looking forward to it. Incredibly smart and as a bonus hes funny. When I talk to my friends about therapy they tell me they are jealous that I have such an amazing therapist. I can’t express how grateful I am to have finally found a truly good and caring therapist.
Written on Oct 06, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
Matthew is so awesome! He's helped me regain confidence and motivation. He's a great listener and even if we get off topic, he always brings us back to the original topic. It feels like you're talking to a friend and he's really rooting for you. Definitely definitely recommend using his service!!
Written on Oct 04, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
i literally love my therapist, they give me the run down and has been the reason ive been able to feel inspired and motivated and hear other perspectives. 10/10.
Written on Oct 03, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Very helpful, personable, and a straight shooter. Addresses and talks through concerns. Grateful I found a therapist that has been super great in listening and working as a team with me.
Written on Sep 20, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 1 month
Matthew consistently challenged me in ways that have helped me to grow.
Written on Sep 20, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and adhd
He sincerely has helped me so much in the fight to get over the largest obstacle I've had - myself. I can feel myself growing as a person and I'm glad to have Matthew's guidance
Written on Sep 19, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Totally awesome councilor, listens to all my concerns and is slowly helping me to start loving myself again.
Very supportive
Written on Sep 13, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigu
Matthews a really good listener, he takes what I’m saying into consideration. Even if it goes off topic he acknowledges it, and then brings me back to the original point so that we can figure it out. He makes it so much easier to understand what I’m feeling.
Written on Aug 28, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and adhd
Matthew has an excellent skills with: putting things into perspective, working through trauma with problem solving, letting you (the client/patient) talk freely and openly without fear of judgement.
Written on Aug 19, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks
Matthew has been a savior to my life at this time.
Written on Aug 04, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
Matthew Miller was great. Amazing that he picked up on things like he did. Gave me permission to feel what I was feeling (permission I wasnt granting myself) and also gave me permission to let stuff go that wasnt my stuff. Still shaking my head at how simple yet powerful our sessions were.
Written on Apr 22, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, and adhd
Matthew is a very intelligent and humble person for your needs and concerns of what you discuss. He is a very honest and strong support to your life and very good guidance person for what you want and need in your life.
Written on Apr 21, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd
Matthew takes time to understand the problems you are facing and does his best to let you know he’s hearing you and will sometimes provide suggestions.
Written on Apr 20, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Made me think about things in a different way, very helpful to get me out of my head!
Written on Apr 18, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management
Matthew seems to know just what to say to make me reassess my situation and re-orientate myself towards my goals.
Written on Apr 02, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety
Great counselor. Helped me a lot.
Written on Apr 01, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks
Having the ability to connect with Matthew was everything to me. He helped me understand, he listened and gave me tools navigate through my issues.
He is absolutely amazing! He is funny, compassionate, and down to earth!
Written on Mar 29, 2021 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
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