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I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor working in the field with adults and couples for the last 6 years. I have worked with clients who suffer from depression, anxiety, trauma, sexual identity issues, and addiction. There is not a population of people I feel uncomfortable working with.
My therapeutic approach is a combination of psychodynamic, humanistic, and reality therapy. My goal as a therapist is to help you meet your goals, while becoming obsolete. I want you to be able to live your life as free as possible and no longer have a need for me.
I am an EMDR trained therapist, which has been an instrumental tool in working with individuals suffering from trauma such as loss of a loved one or rape. For more information on EMDR follow this link: https://www.emdr.com/what-is-emdr/
I would describe my counseling style as non-judgmental, genuine, warm, and solution-focused. I will help you get to wherever you need to go, whether that's a better sense of self, better work ethic, or lower depressive or anxious levels. I am also here if you just need an unbiased 3rd party listen to your issues in a confidential setting.
Additional areas of focus:LGBT, Family conflicts, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Abandonment, Attachment issues, Commitment Issues, Communication problems, Coping with Natural or Human-Caused Disaster, Dependent Personality, Divorce and separation, Family Problems, Forgiveness, Gender Dysphoria, Guilt and shame, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Military and Veterans Issues, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Personality Disorders, Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships, Post-traumatic stress, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Sexual Assault and Abuse, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Young Adult Issues
Clinical approaches: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy
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Reviews
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I think therapy for me is like a puzzle, sometimes I can’t figure something out and then I talk to Paul and it’s like he sheds light on my issue and then I see my issue for what it is. Paul is very accommodating to his clients. Try Paul, his flexible schedule allowed me time to schedule an appointment at a later hour.
Written on Aug 19, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
I have only had a few sessions with Paul and already it’s made a difference. I have enjoyed the challenge of working on myself with him asking attentive questions to push me in the right direction. He seems to truly listen and doesn’t entertain my rambling tangents , particularly if he has a certain point he wants to discuss.
He is my second therapist on this platform and I’m so glad I made the change
Written on Jul 15, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning adhd
Paul is very patient, listens and offers great advice. It is difficult to find a therapist that understands LGBTQ+ issues and provide appropriate and genuine support and advice and tools to work with. Definitely recommend!
Written on Jun 26, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
He’s great, listens and is always there! Couldn’t recommend a better therapist.
Written on Jun 25, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
Paul is fantastic. Therapy feels low-pressure, but also goal-oriented in a way I haven’t experienced before. He’s a fantastic listener, and also helps me turn my random thoughts into goals and actions — with plenty of room for changing course when something doesn’t work. Would absolutely recommend him!!
Written on May 30, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
I’ve only been speaking to Paul for a couple of weeks but I’m really starting to feel comfortable telling him things. He is supportive and totally non judgemental.
Written on Apr 27, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning self esteem, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Paul is very friendly and attentive. I feel at ease chatting to him about myself and I feel no judgement or pressure. His responses are prompt and insightful and I’ve found I look forward to our weekly sessions. A great therapist for those who are just starting out!
Written on Apr 25, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Paul is an active listener who knows how to engage and draw you into conversation. Paul helped me realize new things about myself and made some very helpful insights.
Written on Apr 24, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and lgbt
I struggled with finding a suitable therapist for a while when first using this platform. I was looking for a therapist who makes me feel at ease, who I can share almost everything without fearing being judged. I am glad I was finally matched with one who checks almost all the boxes.
Written on Apr 22, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes
Paul has great insights and is always willing to try something new or pivot if something isn't working or not what you want to pursue. He does a great job at listening to your needs, and supporting you through the journey that you choose.
Written on Mar 24, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Paul is Respectful, understanding and makes you feel at ease very quickly. Having had Therapy in the past it can sometimes be daunting, Paul helps you put that aside in a short time. Paul gives great home work that assists in assessing some of our actions. Paul is also great at checking in and utilises this app to its best ability.
Honestly Paul Farley is a 10 out of 10 and I’ve felt fully supported with the work we have done in such a short time.
Written on Mar 12, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, and anger management
Paul has done an excellent job so far. He's responsive, understanding, and knowledgeable in techniques to help manage my depression.
Written on Mar 12, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, self esteem, and adhd
So beyond grateful and lucky to have been paired with Paul. He is exactly who I needed to talk to and reccomened many practical activities , techniques , and resources to help. He listens 100000% He remembered details and everything about my complex issues. If you're paired with him you are EXPONENTIALLY LUCKY.
Written on Feb 16, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
Super understanding and a lovely guy. I feel really comfortable sharing things that I wouldn't normally share this casually. He's not only nice and open, but also very professional and respectful :) Hell, he even laughs at my terrible jokes! This is awesome! (yeah no, but seriously - would absolutely recommend him)
Written on Feb 10, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Paul is a wonderful therapist. He is kind, non-judgemental and really listens. I felt comfortable opening up to him from the very first session. His support was a lifeline as he helped me heal from and put into context childhood memories that were holding me back. I would highly recommend him as a therapist.
Written on Sep 28, 2021 after therapy with Paul for 4 months on issues concerning trauma and abuse
Paul is a phenomenal therapist. He really listens and gives well informed feedback and advice. Very caring and quick responder. I’d recommend Paul any day.
Written on Aug 21, 2021 after therapy with Paul for 2 months on issues concerning depression, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and adhd
He is really helpful and I have enjoyed our sessions!
Written on Aug 03, 2021 after therapy with Paul for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and adhd
Paul has done an excellent job guiding me through the counciling process. Being a newcomer, I was very anxious about the whole process. Paul has been there to guide me each step of the way. 12/10 would recommend!
Written on Jul 31, 2021 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and grief
He's a very kind and relatable therapist. He does his best to understand me, and has a wide variety of advice. His printouts are pretty neat too.
Written on May 08, 2021 after therapy with Paul for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd
Really supportive and open to altering sessions. Very grateful thanks.
Written on May 08, 2021 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, and coping with life changes
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