Roberto (BO) Hess, LCSW
About me
"We are all just walking each other home." - Rumi
Hello, I am Bo. I am a licensed psychotherapist, licensed clinical addiction specialist, and psychiatric social worker. Thank you for considering me as your clinician. I understand it is difficult to reach out for help. Right now, you may be navigating feelings of shame, embarrassment, and anger. I want you to know, I have been there too, in the middle of the storm, darkness all around. Sometimes in life and in our relationships, we all can become "stuck".
There is a way out, and the way you are feeling now does not have to be the way you feel indefinitely. Most of the solutions to problems do not come intuitively. One role as your therapist is a mentor or guide, assisting in navigating the rough winds of the storm.
I incorporate psychoanalytic, cognitive, and dialectical-behavioral and mindfulness approaches into psychotherapy. I aspire to create a therapeutic space where you will feel safe and comfortable. A positive therapeutic relationship is at the heart of successful treatment. I view trust, honesty, and humor as key ingredients to forming an effective working relationship with my patients.
Professional experience
Additional areas of focus: LGBT, Grief, Eating disorders, Parenting issues, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Abandonment, Antisocial personality, Avoidant personality, Body image, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Dissociation, Drug and alcohol addiction, Emptiness, Family problems, First responder issues, Guilt and shame, Impulsivity, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Men's issues, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Mood disorders, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Personality disorders, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Self-harm, Sex addiction, Sexual dysfunction, Sexuality, Smoking / vaping cessation, Social anxiety and phobia, Young adult issues
Clinical approaches: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy
License information
NC LCSW C011628
Reviews
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Unexpectedly helpful.
Written on Mar 16, 2023 after therapy with Roberto (BO) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, and sleeping disorders
A great therapist who’s pushing me in the right direction
Written on Feb 25, 2023 after therapy with Roberto (BO) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Bo is incredibly competent and intuitive. I felt understand and support from our first session onward. Having a vast knowledge of tools and behavioral techniques has made Bo the kind of therapist that I can see myself really digging deep and getting through past trauma with. If you are seeking to be supported on a journey of self growth and improvement, Bo is the right person for you.
Written on Sep 04, 2021 after therapy with Roberto (BO) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue