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Thomas (Thom) Wilder, LPC

Stress, Anxiety Relationships Grief Anger management Compassion fatigue
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About me

My name is Thom Wilder, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Texas with training and experience in helping clients identify and cope with their challenges. Because you have your own personality, experiences, strengths, and needs I know that the most important thing I can do for you is to get to know you by listening in a safe environment. Then I can pull from my training and experience to develop a therapeutic plan that meets your unique situation.
I work with clients in the following areas:
Trauma. I am a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) and work with
Childhood trauma
Event trauma
Developmental trauma
Complex Trauma
Mood disorders:
Depression
Anxiety
Acute stress
Bipolar disorder
Anger management
Grief
Relationships:
Couples therapy
Communication
Pre-marital Counseling
Conflict management
Infidelity
Divorce
Gray Divorce
Chronic Conditions
Chronic illness
Chronic pain
Caregivers fatigue
Chronic stress management
I take an integrative approach to mental health. To be totally healthy we must pay attention to the whole person; the biological, psychological, and social/relational (bio/psycho/social) components of our lives.

I will customize your therapeutic plan, pulling from these modalities:
-Cognitive Behavior Therapy
-Dialectical Behavior Therapy
-Trauma Focused Therapy
-Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
-Strength-based Therapy
-Client Centered Therapy
-Solution Focused Therapy
-Somatic Therapy
-Mindfulness

Education and Credentials:
-BS in Sociology, Auburn university, Montgomery Al, 1980
-MA in Professional Counseling, Liberty University, Lynchburg VA, 2016
-Licensing – LPC, Texas, Lic. # 77731
-Certified Clinical Trauma Professional.

Professional experience

30yrs in practice
Stress, Anxiety Relationships Grief Anger management Compassion fatigue

Additional areas of focus: Addictions, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Intimacy-related issues, Sleeping disorders, Parenting issues, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Coping with life changes, Coaching, ADHD, Aging and geriatric issues, Blended family issues, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Communication problems, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Divorce and separation, Family problems, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Life purpose, Midlife crisis, Mood disorders, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Somatization

Clinical approaches: Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Services offered

Video
Phone
Live Chat
Messaging

License information

TX LPC 77731

Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Thomas (Thom) Wilder. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Thomas is great! I’m so happy with how he’s helped me in such a short period of time. He listens and offers direction, I feel validated and I have a renewed sense of purpose in my life which feels great.

Written on Oct 01, 2023 after therapy with Thomas (Thom) for 2 weeks on issues concerning compassion fatigue

Nothing but great things to say about my experience with Thom. Very knowledgeable and makes my time with him productive and applicable to help me better my life.

Written on Aug 02, 2023 after therapy with Thomas (Thom) for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and coping with life changes

Thom Wilder is the most intelligent, educated professional therapist I have ever had. After 30 years with other therapists, in patient treatment centers and out patient facilities I had given up on ever finding someone who had the experience and strength to handle my severe CPTSD, Complicated Grief, and BPD. He has listened patiently and never tuned out my devastating past. He is the first therapist to guide me out of the darkness and showed me new ways to think and live. I cannot express my happiness enough on having found him. I'm so glad I found Betterhelp and the wonderful support they provide. "Help is on the way" emails from BetterHelp always give me a sense of peace, support, and safety. I recommend it to everyone with whom I speak.

Written on Oct 29, 2021 after therapy with Thomas (Thom) for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, and adhd

Learned alot and have had alot of mental growth working with him

Written on Aug 30, 2021 after therapy with Thomas (Thom) for 2 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and career difficulties

I was worried at first thinking we wouldn’t be a good match. His professionalism is top notch. Yet, he gives off an air of friendship. He’s very comforting and I’m very thankful for him.

Written on Aug 09, 2021 after therapy with Thomas (Thom) for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd

Very timely response, thoughtful, and engaging. Gives enough room for you to talk while, also responding in a way that exposes you to new ways of thinking.

Written on Jun 30, 2021 after therapy with Thomas (Thom) for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes